Is it wrong?

BossMark · 09-30-13, 07:17 AM

To date someone 20 years younger then yourself?

On my recent trip to Majorca I bumped (literally) into a very attractive Ukrainian girl we got talking even though her English was very good but my Russian is crap I only know 2 words. But we got on very well so we exchanged email addresses. And now she wants me to go and stay with her for a while I tried to explain our age difference but she will have none of it, so I might\want to give into her, but she as a great personality and a figure to die for and by far the best looking women that's ever approached me, I have told my family nothing of this, so I am asking what you guys and gals think.

I will post a picture of her on the beautiful women thread or the photography thread in the near future but not yet.

kranz · 09-30-13, 07:22 AM

I'd say "go for it".
The worst thing that can happen to you is catching Ukrainian AIDS which is a much better situation than getting butchered by Ukrainian mafia.
So, remember: go for it - but on your ground.

on a more serious note - I'm not an expert but 20 years is a huuuge difference.

Wolferz · 09-30-13, 07:32 AM

If you're old enough to know better but still young enough to do something about it, I say go have some fun. Be on your guard though.

Do let your family know that you are going to visit a "friend" in case something unfortunate happens and you need Interpol to find you.

Red October1984 · 09-30-13, 07:34 AM

In my opinion, there's a gray area here.

My advice (for what it's worth) be careful.

Armistead · 09-30-13, 07:48 AM

Very beautiful
Very young

I would suspect motive, so be careful. Course, they're lots of beautiful women trying to marry outside their nations for numerous reasons. There was a man in my old neighborhood that got him a mail ordered bride from Russia. He was in his 40's, she was about 25. We thought him joking until he went over there and brought her back. It cost him about 25K total. Honestly, she was beauty to behold. THey actually had a great marriage for 3 years or so, but she finally left him once she became americanized.

Herr-Berbunch · 09-30-13, 08:07 AM

Let's be honest, you have come here to ask our opinion, you've come to show off.

I'll second the go-for-it-but-with-caution route.

I know a few people with brides from Belize and Thailand, all long, successful marriages, and some age differences. Don't know about Ukrainians though.

bertieck476 · 09-30-13, 08:08 AM

Citizenship does spring to mind, maybe enjoy it but be careful not to get hurt.

Herr-Berbunch · 09-30-13, 08:15 AM

Can you get Leeds to play a friendly with Dynamo Kiev and go as a taster?

BossMark · 09-30-13, 08:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Herr-Berbunch

Can you get Leeds to play a friendly with Dynamo Kiev and go as a taster?

Thats a good Idea

, and I think am going ask her to come to Leeds see what she says about Jesus I may even pay for her flight

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@Armistead Jesus 25k sod that for a game that's way too much even for a model.

My pecker says go for it but my head says am not sure.

Armistead · 09-30-13, 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BossMark

Thats a good Idea

, and I think am going ask her to come to Leeds see what she says about Jesus I may even pay for her flight

.

@Armistead Jesus 25k sod that for a game that's way too much even for a model.

My pecker says go for it but my head says am not sure.

Just think with your head.....

TarJak · 09-30-13, 08:38 AM

Caveat emptor.

Herr-Berbunch · 09-30-13, 08:51 AM

I know some good christian folk who go to Ukraine every couple of years, they always enjoy it but I doubt they'd be with a hot girl so you'd enjoy it even more. Just create a second bank account and only take that card with you!

Mittelwaechter · 09-30-13, 08:54 AM

Simple.

Tell her you'll never ever marry (again?) and see if she stays interested in you.

Armistead · 09-30-13, 09:17 AM

AVGWarhawk · 09-30-13, 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Armistead

Very beautiful
Very young

I would suspect motive, so be careful. Course, they're lots of beautiful women trying to marry outside their nations for numerous reasons. There was a man in my old neighborhood that got him a mail ordered bride from Russia. He was in his 40's, she was about 25. We thought him joking until he went over there and brought her back. It cost him about 25K total. Honestly, she was beauty to behold. THey actually had a great marriage for 3 years or so, but she finally left him once she became americanized.

The most sound advise I have read yet.

09-30-13, 07:17 AM	#1
BossMark Fleet Admiral Join Date: May 2011 Location: Leeds, West Yorkshire Posts: 15,272 Downloads: 278 Uploads: 0	Is it wrong? To date someone 20 years younger then yourself? On my recent trip to Majorca I bumped (literally) into a very attractive Ukrainian girl we got talking even though her English was very good but my Russian is crap I only know 2 words. But we got on very well so we exchanged email addresses. And now she wants me to go and stay with her for a while I tried to explain our age difference but she will have none of it, so I might\want to give into her, but she as a great personality and a figure to die for and by far the best looking women that's ever approached me, I have told my family nothing of this, so I am asking what you guys and gals think. I will post a picture of her on the beautiful women thread or the photography thread in the near future but not yet. __________________ Never trust the Tories look what Thatcher and Major did in the 80s and 90s and look what the wicked witch May is doing now doing now

09-30-13, 07:32 AM	#3
Wolferz Navy Seal Join Date: May 2007 Location: On a mighty quest for the Stick of Truth Posts: 5,963 Downloads: 52 Uploads: 0	If you're old enough to know better but still young enough to do something about it, I say go have some fun. Be on your guard though. Do let your family know that you are going to visit a "friend" in case something unfortunate happens and you need Interpol to find you. __________________ Tomorrow never comes

09-30-13, 07:34 AM	#4
Red October1984 Airplane Nerd Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 6,243 Downloads: 115 Uploads: 0	In my opinion, there's a gray area here. My advice (for what it's worth) be careful. __________________

09-30-13, 07:48 AM	#5
Armistead Rear Admiral Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: on the Dan Posts: 10,880 Downloads: 364 Uploads: 0	Very beautiful Very young I would suspect motive, so be careful. Course, they're lots of beautiful women trying to marry outside their nations for numerous reasons. There was a man in my old neighborhood that got him a mail ordered bride from Russia. He was in his 40's, she was about 25. We thought him joking until he went over there and brought her back. It cost him about 25K total. Honestly, she was beauty to behold. THey actually had a great marriage for 3 years or so, but she finally left him once she became americanized. __________________ You see my dog don't like people laughing. He gets the crazy idea you're laughing at him. Now if you apologize like I know you're going to, I might convince him that you really didn't mean it.

09-30-13, 08:07 AM	#6
Herr-Berbunch Kaiser Bill's batman Join Date: May 2010 Location: AN72 Posts: 13,203 Downloads: 76 Uploads: 0	Let's be honest, you have come here to ask our opinion, you've come to show off. I'll second the go-for-it-but-with-caution route. I know a few people with brides from Belize and Thailand, all long, successful marriages, and some age differences. Don't know about Ukrainians though. __________________

09-30-13, 07:22 AM	#2
kranz The Old Man Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Poland Posts: 1,430 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	I'd say "go for it". The worst thing that can happen to you is catching Ukrainian AIDS which is a much better situation than getting butchered by Ukrainian mafia. So, remember: go for it - but on your ground. on a more serious note - I'm not an expert but 20 years is a huuuge difference.

09-30-13, 08:08 AM	#7
bertieck476 Chief Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 327 Downloads: 33 Uploads: 0	Citizenship does spring to mind, maybe enjoy it but be careful not to get hurt.

09-30-13, 08:15 AM	#8
Herr-Berbunch Kaiser Bill's batman Join Date: May 2010 Location: AN72 Posts: 13,203 Downloads: 76 Uploads: 0	Can you get Leeds to play a friendly with Dynamo Kiev and go as a taster? __________________

09-30-13, 08:38 AM	#11
TarJak Fleet Admiral Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 17,052 Downloads: 150 Uploads: 8	Caveat emptor.

09-30-13, 08:51 AM	#12
Herr-Berbunch Kaiser Bill's batman Join Date: May 2010 Location: AN72 Posts: 13,203 Downloads: 76 Uploads: 0	I know some good christian folk who go to Ukraine every couple of years, they always enjoy it but I doubt they'd be with a hot girl so you'd enjoy it even more. Just create a second bank account and only take that card with you! __________________

09-30-13, 08:54 AM	#13
Mittelwaechter The Old Man Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,304 Downloads: 35 Uploads: 0	Simple. Tell her you'll never ever marry (again?) and see if she stays interested in you. __________________ 10 happy wolves rear 90 blinded, ensnared sheep. 90 happy sheep banish the wolves. Arrest the 1% - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQ6hg1oNeGE

09-30-13, 09:17 AM	#14
Armistead Rear Admiral Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: on the Dan Posts: 10,880 Downloads: 364 Uploads: 0	__________________ You see my dog don't like people laughing. He gets the crazy idea you're laughing at him. Now if you apologize like I know you're going to, I might convince him that you really didn't mean it.