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BossMark 09-30-13 07:17 AM

Is it wrong?
 
To date someone 20 years younger then yourself?

On my recent trip to Majorca I bumped (literally) into a very attractive Ukrainian girl we got talking even though her English was very good but my Russian is crap I only know 2 words. But we got on very well so we exchanged email addresses. And now she wants me to go and stay with her for a while I tried to explain our age difference but she will have none of it, so I might\want to give into her, but she as a great personality and a figure to die for and by far the best looking women that's ever approached me, I have told my family nothing of this, so I am asking what you guys and gals think.

I will post a picture of her on the beautiful women thread or the photography thread in the near future but not yet.

kranz 09-30-13 07:22 AM

I'd say "go for it".
The worst thing that can happen to you is catching Ukrainian AIDS which is a much better situation than getting butchered by Ukrainian mafia.
So, remember: go for it - but on your ground.

on a more serious note - I'm not an expert but 20 years is a huuuge difference.

Wolferz 09-30-13 07:32 AM

If you're old enough to know better but still young enough to do something about it, I say go have some fun. Be on your guard though.:D

Do let your family know that you are going to visit a "friend" in case something unfortunate happens and you need Interpol to find you.:huh:

Red October1984 09-30-13 07:34 AM

In my opinion, there's a gray area here.

My advice (for what it's worth) be careful.

Armistead 09-30-13 07:48 AM

Very beautiful
Very young

I would suspect motive, so be careful. Course, they're lots of beautiful women trying to marry outside their nations for numerous reasons. There was a man in my old neighborhood that got him a mail ordered bride from Russia. He was in his 40's, she was about 25. We thought him joking until he went over there and brought her back. It cost him about 25K total. Honestly, she was beauty to behold. THey actually had a great marriage for 3 years or so, but she finally left him once she became americanized.

Herr-Berbunch 09-30-13 08:07 AM

Let's be honest, you have come here to ask our opinion, you've come to show off. :O:

I'll second the go-for-it-but-with-caution route.

I know a few people with brides from Belize and Thailand, all long, successful marriages, and some age differences. Don't know about Ukrainians though.

bertieck476 09-30-13 08:08 AM

Citizenship does spring to mind, maybe enjoy it but be careful not to get hurt.

Herr-Berbunch 09-30-13 08:15 AM

Can you get Leeds to play a friendly with Dynamo Kiev and go as a taster?

BossMark 09-30-13 08:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Herr-Berbunch (Post 2121302)
Can you get Leeds to play a friendly with Dynamo Kiev and go as a taster?

Thats a good Idea :yep:, and I think am going ask her to come to Leeds see what she says about Jesus I may even pay for her flight :haha:.

@Armistead Jesus 25k sod that for a game that's way too much even for a model.

My pecker says go for it but my head says am not sure.

Armistead 09-30-13 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BossMark (Post 2121306)
Thats a good Idea :yep:, and I think am going ask her to come to Leeds see what she says about Jesus I may even pay for her flight :haha:.

@Armistead Jesus 25k sod that for a game that's way too much even for a model.

My pecker says go for it but my head says am not sure.

Just think with your head.....

TarJak 09-30-13 08:38 AM

Caveat emptor.

Herr-Berbunch 09-30-13 08:51 AM

I know some good christian folk who go to Ukraine every couple of years, they always enjoy it but I doubt they'd be with a hot girl so you'd enjoy it even more. Just create a second bank account and only take that card with you!

Mittelwaechter 09-30-13 08:54 AM

Simple.

Tell her you'll never ever marry (again?) and see if she stays interested in you.

Armistead 09-30-13 09:17 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWAUCVbnDUg

AVGWarhawk 09-30-13 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Armistead (Post 2121286)
Very beautiful
Very young

I would suspect motive, so be careful. Course, they're lots of beautiful women trying to marry outside their nations for numerous reasons. There was a man in my old neighborhood that got him a mail ordered bride from Russia. He was in his 40's, she was about 25. We thought him joking until he went over there and brought her back. It cost him about 25K total. Honestly, she was beauty to behold. THey actually had a great marriage for 3 years or so, but she finally left him once she became americanized.


The most sound advise I have read yet.


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