Abortion and You

[Skybird]

In principle I would favour to encourage every mother to carry out her child. If she still does not want it after having given birth, I would like her to have the legal possibility to give away her baby for adoption.

There are more and more couples today that cannot have babies, but would love to have kids. You could help both the mother and these couples that way.

I also know that life for all protagonists in disfunctional families can be hell for all, last but not least the children often are the ones suffering the most from that. Scandals of the past months and years in germany illustrate that. It goes as far as kids getting killed in mosrt cruel ways, and die by starvation while the parents don'T care.

I also know that having kids could derail your whole life, and I am not talking about career and money, but parents that are children themselves, and who see many things a human could and should experience at that age, being unavailable to them. That can raise bitterniss. Bitternis leads to anger. Anger leads to mistreatment.

for these reasons I am absolutely suppoorting the legal possibility that mothers could give away their children legally.

and I prefer that solution to abortion (medical arguments excluded). I also would like to kick media's lower bottoms for supporting a tennage cult and idols that lecture young people how cool it is to hehave like apemen, taking drugs, and have sex at every opportunity, and not using condoms. I am definitely not prude, but I think some more education towards self-control, discipline and less consuming of the other would be in order. If we complain about today's youth - we should not forget that they live according to what we adults teach them - or allow them. But if we accept a total laissez-faire, and rate crazy idols and bad media behavior and the money being made from that bahvior as acceptable for spioiling our children, we have no right to criticise them, and should point finger at ourselves instead.

Nevertheless in principal I defend the right of abortion, and I go into battle mode when relgious fanatics and zealots swing anti-abortion posters in one hand and the bible in their other hand, and even become militant and threaten staff and hospitals. Of abortion and such zealots, the latter are by far the greater evil.

Encourage mothers not to abort, but neither put social pressure on them, nor make abortion illegal. If that is their final decision, well, so be it. also do not be quick in judging them. most often you do not know the story behind it, and sometimes that may be a story of foolishness, but most often that is a story of tragedy and despair. If you want influence a situation, do not confront the mother and threaten her, but support her - no matter what the final decision of hers will be. Most abortions take place due to despair, disorientation, and lacking support. Riding moral attacks against such mothers does not help themn, but make their situation even worse. A pregnancy is a thing that affects and is part of the mother in the most direct way, nobody has any right to comand her what to do with that baby in her womb. If you think you have the right to do so, in name of the unborn life, you are not better than that kind of Muslims that treats their women like life stock.

Also consider this: 4 out of 5 women suffer from depression after having aborted. If you think mothers always make it too easy for themselves when aborting, you are missing reality by lightyears. such irresponsible women show up, too, yes - but they are not the rule. Not too mention that what you perceive as irresponsibility - may be lacking life experience. Pregnant mothers have a human right to fail and make mistakes, too. Has Jesus told you to leave behind those who sinned and did not know it better? So againb, if you want to influence a given situation, approach it with gentle mind, and be supportive. That is your best chance to make the mother chnage her mind. Give her a realistic perspective. Cast a spell of doom on her, and she will be doomed indeed. If you consider yourself to have practiced as a shiny Christian that way, I spit in your face.

I also must say this, though: I often see female dumbheads and their annoying brats at town and just think that it would have been the preferred option to see such people abort instead of having babies. Some people raise an incredibly nasty breed and do not educate them at all, and behave like the last survivor from the stoneage themselves. To see such figures makes me sick. and to see what influence these brats will project on social life and the cultural community once they grew up, makes me sick even more.

when human life begins, if soul exists and is a separate entity from body or not, all this can be discussed ad nauseum without reaching consensus. And there are ethical implication that touch a level of principle content that does lead beyond the individual life's fate. So I do the obvious thing that recommends itself: I'll will be with the mother and try to see it from her point of view and offer possibilities instead of refusing options. the magical word is "opportunity" - not "command". threaten a mother with hate if she aborts - and do not be surprised if maybe she gives birth, but then hates the child.