I Have Lost My Wife And Soul Mate To Cancer

THEBERBSTER · 06-04-20, 12:22 PM

Hello my friends.
It saddens me to tell you that my wife passed peacefully away at home at 17.15 on Tuesday.
She was diagnosed in February with bile duct terminal cancer after becoming jaundiced.
Although Lynnette had a stent fitted, it became blocked within a month and the jaundice came back and she looked like a minion.
From Monday afternoon she became bed bound and had a rough painful night.
On Tuesday morning the district nurse used a syringe driver to insert the drugs needed to keep her comfortable.
A cetheter was fitted and it drained away the fluid from the liver which was causing the pain from the night.

She was able to communicate with family and friends who came to say goodbye and by late afternoon drifted into a coma.
It would have been her 72nd birthday on the 23rd, we would have been married for 50 years on November 13th.
God bless you, your loving husband Peter

Texas Red · 06-04-20, 12:25 PM

THEBERBSTER, I am so sorry, my deepest condolences. I lost a young friend to cancer back in the first grade. He was only 7.

We should treasure the time we have with our family members or any other person as they can be taken away from us tomorrow or right now.

I hope you are ok, THEBERBSTER.

u crank · 06-04-20, 12:28 PM

Peter it saddens me to hear this news.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Skybird · 06-04-20, 12:43 PM

My deepest condolences, I hope you have people around you that watch over you while you try to find light in this darkness that has fallen. And if you have the feeling your soul mate sails an easier ocean of light now - trust in that feeling and wish her a bon voyage, for doing so over time might help you to find back into the light as well. Just give it time.

Catfish · 06-04-20, 12:55 PM

Oh no, this is terrible news.
Have no words, my deepest condolences to you, and your family.

mapuc · 06-04-20, 02:03 PM

My deepest condolences

She will live on in your heart and in your memory

Markus

Texas Red · 06-04-20, 02:11 PM

People say that a person is only truly dead once they are forgotten.
Keep her memory alive and she won't be dead, she is already dead physically, but not mentally.

50 years is a long time to be married. It must've been a healthy and very loving relationship.

She is in a better land now and is not in pain and is healthy and happy.

I will pray for you, THEBERBSTER. I hope that you recover and get back to life and you keep her alive forever.

vienna · 06-04-20, 03:35 PM

My deepest condolences to you and your family. This is indeed very sad news. I hope you all will find solace in the memories she has given you and the love you have shared. Blessings on all of you and blessings on her soul...

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Rockstar · 06-04-20, 03:48 PM

Breaks my heart to hear of your loss.

Eichhörnchen · 06-04-20, 04:31 PM

What an awful shock, Peter... I'm so very very sad and sorry. Grief is the price we pay for love, so they say... but I can't begin to imagine it, old friend

Onkel Neal · 06-04-20, 04:33 PM

Ah Peter, I am sorry to hear that. I hope you know what comfort your friends here can give is yours for the taking.

Platapus · 06-04-20, 04:56 PM

So sorry for your loss.

Commander Wallace · 06-04-20, 05:09 PM

Oh Peter. I am so terribly sorry to hear of your dear Lynette's passing. Truly, I'm at a loss for words right now. As Neal already said, you have many friends here to lean on at this difficult time. I hope you have that there as well. We are all a message away.

I will keep both you, Lynette and your families in my prayers.

Rest in Peace Lynette and may God's blessing be upon you both and your families.

All the best to you, Peter.

CW

Armistead · 06-04-20, 05:34 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, but what a tribute of a life of love for so many years.

August · 06-04-20, 05:47 PM

Please accept my sincere condolences.

06-04-20, 12:22 PM	#1
THEBERBSTER Growing Old Disgracefully Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Hythe - Southampton Posts: 9,609 Downloads: 1133 Uploads: 0	I Have Lost My Wife And Soul Mate To Cancer Hello my friends. It saddens me to tell you that my wife passed peacefully away at home at 17.15 on Tuesday. She was diagnosed in February with bile duct terminal cancer after becoming jaundiced. Although Lynnette had a stent fitted, it became blocked within a month and the jaundice came back and she looked like a minion. From Monday afternoon she became bed bound and had a rough painful night. On Tuesday morning the district nurse used a syringe driver to insert the drugs needed to keep her comfortable. A cetheter was fitted and it drained away the fluid from the liver which was causing the pain from the night. She was able to communicate with family and friends who came to say goodbye and by late afternoon drifted into a coma. It would have been her 72nd birthday on the 23rd, we would have been married for 50 years on November 13th. God bless you, your loving husband Peter __________________ LSH3-2015 <> TUTORIALS <> ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW <> ALL IN ONE PLACE SH4 <> TUTORIALS <> HOW TO DO IT <> INFORMATION <> DOWNLOAD LINKS SH5 <> TUTORIALS <> HOW TO DO IT <> INFORMATION <> DOWNLOAD LINKS Always Here To Help A Fellow 'Subber' \| Need An Answer to A Question Just Send Me A PM

06-04-20, 12:25 PM	#2
Texas Red Fastest Gun Around Join Date: Aug 2019 Location: Agua Fira, New Mexico Posts: 2,368 Downloads: 528 Uploads: 5	THEBERBSTER, I am so sorry, my deepest condolences. I lost a young friend to cancer back in the first grade. He was only 7. We should treasure the time we have with our family members or any other person as they can be taken away from us tomorrow or right now. I hope you are ok, THEBERBSTER. __________________ There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure. — Colin Powell I'm not very active on the forums anymore. If you have a question, please DM me and I'll respond ASAP!

06-04-20, 12:28 PM	#3
u crank Old enough to know better Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Prince Edward Island Posts: 11,747 Downloads: 136 Uploads: 0	Peter it saddens me to hear this news. My sincere condolences to you and your family. __________________ “Two possibilities exist: either we are alone in the Universe or we are not. Both are equally terrifying.” ― Arthur C. Clarke

06-04-20, 12:43 PM	#4
Skybird Soaring Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: the mental asylum named Germany Posts: 42,703 Downloads: 10 Uploads: 0	My deepest condolences, I hope you have people around you that watch over you while you try to find light in this darkness that has fallen. And if you have the feeling your soul mate sails an easier ocean of light now - trust in that feeling and wish her a bon voyage, for doing so over time might help you to find back into the light as well. Just give it time. __________________ If you feel nuts, consult an expert.

06-04-20, 12:55 PM	#5
Catfish Dipped Squirrel Operative Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: ..where the ocean meets the sky Posts: 17,799 Downloads: 38 Uploads: 0	Oh no, this is terrible news. Have no words, my deepest condolences to you, and your family. __________________ >^..^<*)))>{ All generalizations are wrong.

06-04-20, 02:03 PM	#6
mapuc CINC Pacific Fleet Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Denmark Posts: 20,549 Downloads: 37 Uploads: 0	My deepest condolences She will live on in your heart and in your memory Markus

06-04-20, 02:11 PM	#7
Texas Red Fastest Gun Around Join Date: Aug 2019 Location: Agua Fira, New Mexico Posts: 2,368 Downloads: 528 Uploads: 5	People say that a person is only truly dead once they are forgotten. Keep her memory alive and she won't be dead, she is already dead physically, but not mentally. 50 years is a long time to be married. It must've been a healthy and very loving relationship. She is in a better land now and is not in pain and is healthy and happy. I will pray for you, THEBERBSTER. I hope that you recover and get back to life and you keep her alive forever. __________________ There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure. — Colin Powell I'm not very active on the forums anymore. If you have a question, please DM me and I'll respond ASAP!

06-04-20, 03:35 PM	#8
vienna Navy Seal Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Anywhere but the here & now... Posts: 7,719 Downloads: 85 Uploads: 0	My deepest condolences to you and your family. This is indeed very sad news. I hope you all will find solace in the memories she has given you and the love you have shared. Blessings on all of you and blessings on her soul... <O> __________________ __________________________________________________ __

06-04-20, 03:48 PM	#9
Rockstar In the Brig Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Zendia Bar & Grill Posts: 12,614 Downloads: 10 Uploads: 0	Breaks my heart to hear of your loss.

06-04-20, 04:31 PM	#10
Eichhörnchen Starte das Auto Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: The Fens Posts: 17,457 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	What an awful shock, Peter... I'm so very very sad and sorry. Grief is the price we pay for love, so they say... but I can't begin to imagine it, old friend __________________

06-04-20, 04:33 PM	#11
Onkel Neal Born to Run Silent Join Date: Jan 1997 Location: Cougar Trap, Texas Posts: 21,385 Downloads: 541 Uploads: 224	Ah Peter, I am sorry to hear that. I hope you know what comfort your friends here can give is yours for the taking.

06-04-20, 04:56 PM	#12
Platapus Fleet Admiral Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 19,391 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 0	So sorry for your loss. __________________ abusus non tollit usum - A right should NOT be withheld from people on the basis that some tend to abuse that right.

06-04-20, 05:09 PM	#13
Commander Wallace Navy Seal Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Under the sea in an Octupus garden in the shade Posts: 5,323 Downloads: 366 Uploads: 0	Oh Peter. I am so terribly sorry to hear of your dear Lynette's passing. Truly, I'm at a loss for words right now. As Neal already said, you have many friends here to lean on at this difficult time. I hope you have that there as well. We are all a message away. I will keep both you, Lynette and your families in my prayers. Rest in Peace Lynette and may God's blessing be upon you both and your families. All the best to you, Peter. CW

06-04-20, 05:34 PM	#14
Armistead Rear Admiral Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: on the Dan Posts: 10,880 Downloads: 364 Uploads: 0	I am so sorry for your loss, but what a tribute of a life of love for so many years. __________________ You see my dog don't like people laughing. He gets the crazy idea you're laughing at him. Now if you apologize like I know you're going to, I might convince him that you really didn't mean it.

06-04-20, 05:47 PM	#15
August Wayfaring Stranger Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 23,222 Downloads: 0 Uploads: 0	Please accept my sincere condolences.