I Have Lost My Wife And Soul Mate To Cancer

THEBERBSTER · 06-04-20, 12:22 PM

Hello my friends.
It saddens me to tell you that my wife passed peacefully away at home at 17.15 on Tuesday.
She was diagnosed in February with bile duct terminal cancer after becoming jaundiced.
Although Lynnette had a stent fitted, it became blocked within a month and the jaundice came back and she looked like a minion.
From Monday afternoon she became bed bound and had a rough painful night.
On Tuesday morning the district nurse used a syringe driver to insert the drugs needed to keep her comfortable.
A cetheter was fitted and it drained away the fluid from the liver which was causing the pain from the night.

She was able to communicate with family and friends who came to say goodbye and by late afternoon drifted into a coma.
It would have been her 72nd birthday on the 23rd, we would have been married for 50 years on November 13th.
God bless you, your loving husband Peter

Texas Red · 06-04-20, 12:25 PM

THEBERBSTER, I am so sorry, my deepest condolences. I lost a young friend to cancer back in the first grade. He was only 7.

We should treasure the time we have with our family members or any other person as they can be taken away from us tomorrow or right now.

I hope you are ok, THEBERBSTER.

u crank · 06-04-20, 12:28 PM

Peter it saddens me to hear this news.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Skybird · 06-04-20, 12:43 PM

My deepest condolences, I hope you have people around you that watch over you while you try to find light in this darkness that has fallen. And if you have the feeling your soul mate sails an easier ocean of light now - trust in that feeling and wish her a bon voyage, for doing so over time might help you to find back into the light as well. Just give it time.

Catfish · 06-04-20, 12:55 PM

Oh no, this is terrible news.
Have no words, my deepest condolences to you, and your family.

mapuc · 06-04-20, 02:03 PM

My deepest condolences

She will live on in your heart and in your memory

Markus

Platapus · 06-04-20, 04:56 PM

So sorry for your loss.

Commander Wallace · 06-04-20, 05:09 PM

Oh Peter. I am so terribly sorry to hear of your dear Lynette's passing. Truly, I'm at a loss for words right now. As Neal already said, you have many friends here to lean on at this difficult time. I hope you have that there as well. We are all a message away.

I will keep both you, Lynette and your families in my prayers.

Rest in Peace Lynette and may God's blessing be upon you both and your families.

All the best to you, Peter.

CW

Armistead · 06-04-20, 05:34 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, but what a tribute of a life of love for so many years.

August · 06-04-20, 05:47 PM

Please accept my sincere condolences.

Eisenwurst · 06-04-20, 07:39 PM

Dear Peter.

I feel your pain. I lost mine to cancer 10 years ago. At first I thought I'd go crazy with grief, but friends were there.....and responsibilities, and it became "one breath after another, one step after another" and the years passed as they do.

I still miss her terribly and always will till we meet again in the hereafter. I see her often in dreams - sometimes VERY lucid ones too where we hold hands and talk about old times.

Cherish your memories, and I join with your friends here sending you heartfelt condolences.

Eisenwurst.

Bilge_Rat · 06-06-20, 01:42 PM

My most sincere condoleances on your loss.

AVGWarhawk · 06-08-20, 01:53 PM

My condolences to you and your family.

Jimbuna · 07-27-20, 07:13 AM

Aye, a bit too rich for my blood so account sent packing back to the Philippines.

Appreciation and thanks to those who reported the rubbish.

Onkel Neal · 06-11-20, 11:18 AM

How are you doing, Peter? Was thinking about you this morning.

06-04-20, 12:22 PM	#1
THEBERBSTER Growing Old Disgracefully Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Hythe - Southampton Posts: 9,609 Downloads: 1133 Uploads: 0	I Have Lost My Wife And Soul Mate To Cancer Hello my friends. It saddens me to tell you that my wife passed peacefully away at home at 17.15 on Tuesday. She was diagnosed in February with bile duct terminal cancer after becoming jaundiced. Although Lynnette had a stent fitted, it became blocked within a month and the jaundice came back and she looked like a minion. From Monday afternoon she became bed bound and had a rough painful night. On Tuesday morning the district nurse used a syringe driver to insert the drugs needed to keep her comfortable. A cetheter was fitted and it drained away the fluid from the liver which was causing the pain from the night. She was able to communicate with family and friends who came to say goodbye and by late afternoon drifted into a coma. It would have been her 72nd birthday on the 23rd, we would have been married for 50 years on November 13th. God bless you, your loving husband Peter __________________ LSH3-2015 <> TUTORIALS <> ALL YOU NEED TO KNOW <> ALL IN ONE PLACE SH4 <> TUTORIALS <> HOW TO DO IT <> INFORMATION <> DOWNLOAD LINKS SH5 <> TUTORIALS <> HOW TO DO IT <> INFORMATION <> DOWNLOAD LINKS Always Here To Help A Fellow 'Subber' \| Need An Answer to A Question Just Send Me A PM

06-04-20, 12:25 PM	#2
Texas Red Fastest Gun Around Join Date: Aug 2019 Location: Agua Fira, New Mexico Posts: 2,368 Downloads: 528 Uploads: 5	THEBERBSTER, I am so sorry, my deepest condolences. I lost a young friend to cancer back in the first grade. He was only 7. We should treasure the time we have with our family members or any other person as they can be taken away from us tomorrow or right now. I hope you are ok, THEBERBSTER. __________________ There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure. — Colin Powell I'm not very active on the forums anymore. If you have a question, please DM me and I'll respond ASAP!

06-04-20, 12:28 PM	#3
u crank Old enough to know better Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Prince Edward Island Posts: 11,747 Downloads: 136 Uploads: 0	Peter it saddens me to hear this news. My sincere condolences to you and your family. __________________ “Two possibilities exist: either we are alone in the Universe or we are not. Both are equally terrifying.” ― Arthur C. Clarke

06-04-20, 12:43 PM	#4
Skybird Soaring Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: the mental asylum named Germany Posts: 42,698 Downloads: 10 Uploads: 0	My deepest condolences, I hope you have people around you that watch over you while you try to find light in this darkness that has fallen. And if you have the feeling your soul mate sails an easier ocean of light now - trust in that feeling and wish her a bon voyage, for doing so over time might help you to find back into the light as well. Just give it time. __________________ If you feel nuts, consult an expert.

06-04-20, 12:55 PM	#5
Catfish Dipped Squirrel Operative Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: ..where the ocean meets the sky Posts: 17,799 Downloads: 38 Uploads: 0	Oh no, this is terrible news. Have no words, my deepest condolences to you, and your family. __________________ >^..^<*)))>{ All generalizations are wrong.

06-04-20, 02:03 PM	#6
mapuc CINC Pacific Fleet Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Denmark Posts: 20,548 Downloads: 37 Uploads: 0	My deepest condolences She will live on in your heart and in your memory Markus

06-04-20, 04:56 PM	#7
Platapus Fleet Admiral Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 19,391 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 0	So sorry for your loss. __________________ abusus non tollit usum - A right should NOT be withheld from people on the basis that some tend to abuse that right.

06-04-20, 05:09 PM	#8
Commander Wallace Navy Seal Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Under the sea in an Octupus garden in the shade Posts: 5,322 Downloads: 366 Uploads: 0	Oh Peter. I am so terribly sorry to hear of your dear Lynette's passing. Truly, I'm at a loss for words right now. As Neal already said, you have many friends here to lean on at this difficult time. I hope you have that there as well. We are all a message away. I will keep both you, Lynette and your families in my prayers. Rest in Peace Lynette and may God's blessing be upon you both and your families. All the best to you, Peter. CW

06-04-20, 05:34 PM	#9
Armistead Rear Admiral Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: on the Dan Posts: 10,880 Downloads: 364 Uploads: 0	I am so sorry for your loss, but what a tribute of a life of love for so many years. __________________ You see my dog don't like people laughing. He gets the crazy idea you're laughing at him. Now if you apologize like I know you're going to, I might convince him that you really didn't mean it.

06-04-20, 05:47 PM	#10
August Wayfaring Stranger Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 23,222 Downloads: 0 Uploads: 0	Please accept my sincere condolences.

06-04-20, 07:39 PM	#11
Eisenwurst Silent Hunter Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 3,766 Downloads: 58 Uploads: 0	Dear Peter. I feel your pain. I lost mine to cancer 10 years ago. At first I thought I'd go crazy with grief, but friends were there.....and responsibilities, and it became "one breath after another, one step after another" and the years passed as they do. I still miss her terribly and always will till we meet again in the hereafter. I see her often in dreams - sometimes VERY lucid ones too where we hold hands and talk about old times. Cherish your memories, and I join with your friends here sending you heartfelt condolences. Eisenwurst. __________________

06-06-20, 01:42 PM	#12
Bilge_Rat Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: standing watch... Posts: 3,856 Downloads: 344 Uploads: 0	My most sincere condoleances on your loss. __________________

06-08-20, 01:53 PM	#13
AVGWarhawk Lucky Jack Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In a 1954 Buick. Posts: 28,286 Downloads: 90 Uploads: 0	My condolences to you and your family. __________________ “You're painfully alive in a drugged and dying culture.” ― Richard Yates, Revolutionary Road

07-27-20, 07:13 AM	#14
Jimbuna Chief of the Boat Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 250 metres below the surface Posts: 190,818 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 13	Aye, a bit too rich for my blood so account sent packing back to the Philippines. Appreciation and thanks to those who reported the rubbish. __________________ Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something. Oh my God, not again!!

06-11-20, 11:18 AM	#15
Onkel Neal Born to Run Silent Join Date: Jan 1997 Location: Cougar Trap, Texas Posts: 21,385 Downloads: 541 Uploads: 224	How are you doing, Peter? Was thinking about you this morning.