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Old 02-09-12, 02:05 PM   #1
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I agree, fitness standards should be same. I have never been in military, they didn't accept me , but my brother served as NCO in Army. He told me about exercise during which company was ordered to move in squads as quick march to another position. There was one female soldier in my brother's squad who just wasn't strong enough for the job. Rest of the squad ended up carrying her equipment in addition of their own and even after that their movement took about 45 min longer than from other squads.

My brother, squad leader, wasn't very pleased.
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Old 02-09-12, 02:23 PM   #2
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The important thing to remember:

There are women who dont want to serve in the military and couldnt care less about having similar rights as men. There are women out there that dont want to be submarine commanders, who dont want to fly fighter jets. There are women out there who are perfectly happy to contribute to a household by cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, making sure a good meal is prepared and managing the home. I happen to have one such woman and she is just as vital and important a part of this household as I am.

then...

there are women who want to have these equil rights, they want to roll in the mud and blood for weeks without hot showers, they want to be fortune 500 CEOs, they will not be happy unless they are flying their A-10 down flak alley at 350 knots bearing HARMs down on some SAM site. Some women just want to be one of the guys so bad they can taste it.

and hey, that's fine to want those things... but their crusade - is currently - will continue and always has screwed things up for a lot of women out there that didnt want to burn their bras.

i say give them what they want.

from this date forward all women at the age of 18 should have to sign up for selective service.

the physical and mental standards should remain the same as they have always been.

If any one of us men got drafted and hopped over into Canada we are labeled shameful draft dodgers... why shouldn't a woman have to live with the same choices and decisions?

I think from a perspective of discrimination - I'll have to insist on equality.
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Old 02-10-12, 06:35 PM   #3
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The important thing to remember:

There are women who dont want to serve in the military and couldnt care less about having similar rights as men. There are women out there that dont want to be submarine commanders, who dont want to fly fighter jets. There are women out there who are perfectly happy to contribute to a household by cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, making sure a good meal is prepared and managing the home. I happen to have one such woman and she is just as vital and important a part of this household as I am.
These are the women who know their place, then?
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Old 02-10-12, 06:46 PM   #4
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These are the women who know their place, then?

I do not think he was being mysogynistic as you are painting it out to be.

I like homecooked meals from my wife, and she has no problem making them. I do not beat her or drag her by her hair to force her to make them, she does it because she likes me enough to demean herself enough to cook her old man a meal.

Am I oppressive?

I am also from a military family, and see where male/female integration can self destruct.

I am sure someone will call me a woman hater, but it is more a common sense, and human nature thing with me.

Boys and girls in war do not mix. I can just see too many 18-20 year old soldiers trying harder to get laid in the foxhole, than fighting the enemy.

I knew how I was at 18-20... Use your brains, seriously.
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Old 02-10-12, 06:53 PM   #5
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I do not think he was being mysogynistic as you are painting it out to be.

I like homecooked meals from my wife, and she has no problem making them. I do not beat her or drag her by her hair to force her to make them, she does it because she likes me enough to demean herself enough to cook her old man a meal.

Am I oppressive?

I am also from a military family, and see where male/female integration can self destruct.

I am sure someone will call me a woman hater, but it is more a common sense, and human nature thing with me.

Boys and girls in war do not mix. I can just see too many 18-20 year old soldiers trying harder to get laid in the foxhole, than fighting the enemy.

I knew how I was at 18-20... Use your brains, seriously.
You are dramatising here
Look at the bright side...may be much more fun to look over somebody else's uhm...behaind.
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Old 02-10-12, 07:24 PM   #6
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You are dramatising here
Look at the bright side...may be much more fun to look over somebody else's uhm...behaind.
I suppose a nice supple, well toned feminine backside is better then an IED attack.

Too bad some of the women over there in the middle east are just as savage as the manfolk. Lets blow ourselves up, while our men cower and hide somewhere.

I still advocate for bullets and MOABs, even if it offends my leftist sensibilities

After all, how many troops you need with drones, we can bomb them from whatever remote craphole we want, from Jersey City to Raceda. Sea to shining sea, our remote controlled planes can do what it takes other countries thousands of troops and support to do.

Yes, I am an a-hole, and offer no aplogies. I bet more people like this comment than hate it, although only the haters will comment.
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Old 02-10-12, 11:33 PM   #7
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"I honestly did not see it like that. I saw it as trying to deal with a piece of tail, you would like to bed, potentially dying in front of you, and more sentimentality is reserved for girls."

If you want to truly integrate the military, then no preferential treatment, they should die like men die, to IEDs, no protection, no sending guys to the car at the checkpoint first, let them bear that burden too. Let them sit in Tikrit while hell is breaking loose, not in the back with the water trucks.

Prove to me you belong there.

Sure it is harsh, and not saying they belong in the kitchen, But they have no place on a battlefield.

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You need to do little more research women have died in direct combat they were not hiding or making a male do the dangerous part several have been killed or wounded by IEDs more in less in a place that has IED in use by going outside the gate you are in direct combat if you willing went and did not object then you are taking the risk as anyone else.

http://userpages.aug.com/captbarb/lives.html

look at the bottom of the page you will see many women that where killed by enemy action.

I do not choose to hate anyone but I do dislike your ignorance.

There is also no evidence to show that the male morale level is negatively effected by females being present the only obvious difference is that
the PT standards are lower for females which is reasonable when it is taken into consideration that the female body is less muscular than a males but for any specific job which I think many civilians fail to understand male or female you must meet that requirement as well many jobs require the lifting of a certain amount of weight regardless of sex if you cant lift it you do not get assigned that job.There are mountainous levels political bull crap that have nothing to do with sex one must put up with in the modern military that make this or that of the opposite sex trivial or "below the zone" early promotion to Senior Airman we all called it "below the desk" no matter the sex you went under someones desk so to speak to earn that.For example I was got a stern talking to for making a joke about Iraq back in 2000(when we where still doing the no fly zones and bombing any air defenses actively locking onto our jets) because some tight wad Captain overheard me.

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Old 02-10-12, 09:41 PM   #8
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I do not think he was being mysogynistic as you are painting it out to be.

I like homecooked meals from my wife, and she has no problem making them. I do not beat her or drag her by her hair to force her to make them, she does it because she likes me enough to demean herself enough to cook her old man a meal.

Am I oppressive?

I am also from a military family, and see where male/female integration can self destruct.

I am sure someone will call me a woman hater, but it is more a common sense, and human nature thing with me.

Boys and girls in war do not mix. I can just see too many 18-20 year old soldiers trying harder to get laid in the foxhole, than fighting the enemy.

I knew how I was at 18-20... Use your brains, seriously.
If a woman really wants to be a housewife, more power to her.

GoldenRivet was implying that women who dare to be something besides a housewife are hurting all women. If that isn't misogyny, I don't know what is.
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If a woman really wants to be a housewife, more power to her.

GoldenRivet was implying that women who dare to be something besides a housewife are hurting all women. If that isn't misogyny, I don't know what is.
I honestly did not see it like that. I saw it as trying to deal with a piece of tail, you would like to bed, potentially dying in front of you, and more sentimentality is reserved for girls.

If you want to truly integrate the military, then no preferential treatment, they should die like men die, to IEDs, no protection, no sending guys to the car at the checkpoint first, let them bear that burden too. Let them sit in Tikrit while hell is breaking loose, not in the back with the water trucks.

Prove to me you belong there.

Sure it is harsh, and not saying they belong in the kitchen, But they have no place on a battlefield.

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I honestly did not see it like that. I saw it as trying to deal with a piece of tail, you would like to bed, potentially dying in front of you, and more sentimentality is reserved for girls.
This is [part of] what GoldenRivet said: "...they want to be fortune 500 CEOs..."

That has nothing to do with combat. It has everything to do with women choosing to do things that GR thinks they shouldn't do, even though they've already proven that they are just as capable as men.
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I agree, fitness standards should be same. I have never been in military, they didn't accept me , but my brother served as NCO in Army. He told me about exercise during which company was ordered to move in squads as quick march to another position. There was one female soldier in my brother's squad who just wasn't strong enough for the job. Rest of the squad ended up carrying her equipment in addition of their own and even after that their movement took about 45 min longer than from other squads.

My brother, squad leader, wasn't very pleased.
In politically correct America, you will be labeled a sexist, and any valid point you made is automatically discounted.

That sarcastic comment aside I agree. My cousin and brother were both marines (My left leg is 2 inches shorter than my right, due to a car accident and substandard medical care given to uninsured 14 year olds from poor families, I walk with a permanent limp, they didn't let me in either)

I asked both their opinions on women serving alongside them, and they both agreed it is not a good idea.

Not out of sexist reasons, so hear us out.

In war, man is brought to the most primal of instincts, which explains the high amount of wartime rapes, throughout any war in history. Just look at how German women killed themselves to avoid the Russian army retaliations, or the rape of Nanking by Japanese soldiers.

Anything with a vagina would be nothing more than an impediment, yes that sounds incredibly mysogynistic, but it is not my intention. Men get extra sensitive over a woman falling in combat over another swinging "jimmy"

It sounds bad, I am having troubles articulating myself today. Not minimizing the woman warrior. Just trying to highlight the potential distraction to the male majority.

(no matter how I say it, I am an a-hole, it is not intentional, nor do I hate women, after all someone did marry me.)
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In war, man is brought to the most primal of instincts, which explains the high amount of wartime rapes, throughout any war in history. Just look at how German women killed themselves to avoid the Russian army retaliations, or the rape of Nanking by Japanese soldiers.

Anything with a vagina would be nothing more than an impediment, yes that sounds incredibly mysogynistic, but it is not my intention. Men get extra sensitive over a woman falling in combat over another swinging "jimmy"
On the other hand, Soviet experience of women in combat in WWII frequently throws a wrench into this alleged historical inability of women to perform. Certainly not all women, and certainly not all of them were equally capable, but the Eastern Front provides many examples of women in WWII who fought on par and in some cases better than men. There are several exceptional cases of women as combat troops in front line units, as tank drivers, attack aircraft pilots. There are very large numbers of Soviet women who distinguished themselves as partisans and saboteurs, nurses and other frontline support troops, bomber pilots and air defense crews (i.e. these are roles they performed often, not rarely). There are also whole schools and units of women night bomber pilots and women snipers who, arguably, outperformed all-male units in the Soviet effort.

What does that say as a precedent, then?

There is, of course, the other side - the Soviet army was hardly a professional one (that is, it was a war emergency situation) and hardly dealt with political issues and rules in the same way as the modern-day US army does. But I think the difference here is one of motivation and politics, not necessarily ability. A woman who wants a US army career and social acceptance is probably not motivated by the same things as someone fighting for the survival of their country in a war emergency. It's nonsense to suggest that a woman in combat is always a liability, however. There are many historical cases where they proved themselves to be assets, rather, and the study of the Soviet WWII efforts shoots down a lot of these myths.
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Situation:

a unit is overrun and captured by an enemy force.

the unit has 2 female combatants and 15 male combatants.

the enemy soldiers separate the 2 females and any number of enemy soldiers proceed to rape them repeatedly in brutal fashion in view of the male combatants.

The senior military officer approaches the male combatants in their cell

"This can all stop if you just give us the information we want."

what happens?

Does someone talk at the expense of thousands of other soldiers?

Do the women talk to save themselves?

Knowing the vitality of the information you posses as one of the male combatants... would you feel more compelled to talk considering the torture of your colleague was especially heinous and unusual?

Either way the women and probably even the men involved are psychologically scarred - probably well beyond the normal psychological stress of war- for the rest of their lives.

an back to the draft situation.

Both of these girls are drafted:





which is more likely to be killed in the first 5 minutes of a deployment?

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CCIP sir. I see your point and am not minimizing the combat capibilities of a woman, war is a human instict. You are kinda comparing women defending the homeland to what I was comparing it to (imperialistic actions overseas, with no penalty to defeat, not like your losing your mother land), is women in aggressive combat situations far from home, for little sovereign gain to the agressors. (what is the US getting from Iraq and Afghanistan. China already bought the mineral fields we found in afghanistan.)

But the post below you by GoldenRivet illustrates my point, better than me.

What real man would let a woman be abused by savages, no matter how well trained they are, a mans paternal/protectionist instinct will take over, and can cost many lives in unecessary/vain bravado.

Please do not take me as being mysogynistic. But it is a fact men and women are built differently, it is this politically correct crap that forces us into eventual conundrums as GoldenRivet highlighted so well.
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regardless of the position one holds in the discussion... Human kind should try to rid itself of war... not search for new ways to add more people to it.

It is a costly endeavor - costly in life and capitol - and in the end it really accomplishes very little for the price.
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