Bad News

[Castout]

Originally Posted by Feuer Frei!

Thank you Castout. Thank you for your prayers and kind words.
My mother is gradually getting worse.
The norm is nowadays that she sleeps until midday, she may get up before then and complain about pains and she says she has no hunger for food, so she goes back to bed.
It is a habit with her now. Repeating things often, loss of memory, not remembering what she said previously, or seeking words to describe something.
All signs of early onset of Dementia.
My father is fast coming to the conclusion that outside intervention is needed. He is not sure how to handle the situation anymore. She has lost a lot of weight due to not eating much anymore. Once that happens it is getting difficult.
I spoke to my Mother a week ago, and it was a harrowing experience, to say the least.
I was emotional but did not show signs of it towards her.
Inwardly emotional.
It really touches you when a loved one is slipping down a deep slope like this.

Yeah my late grandmother suffered similar to your mother as well. But she was more than 80 year old then. She was so thin because she was eating less and less saying that she was never hungry. In the end she lost her fight to a flu. I still miss her. I actually had a reliable information she was going to be taken away from us about 2 months before she even got sick(I've had quite a few of that in my life. All three all accurate. All ahead of time). I refused to believe it until she got sick. I hope I'll see her again when my time is due. She was dear to me.

Edit:
Don't worry about how you are going to look worse fighting this cancer. That should be the least of your concern. Don't burden your immune system with needless worrying. Just concentrate on beating this and only then on recovering. No one in their sane mind would judge how well you look when you're battling cancer.