How do you cope?

[Sailor Steve]

Originally Posted by Randomizer

I Like Steve says, Life is Life. You can never go back so dwelling on what was is a huge waste of energy.

That's true too, but my own point and experience are just the opposite. I adjusted well because I take it easy - perhaps too easy. For someone who lives life more intensely it may be harder to adjust to any new thing, especially post-military life.

If there are specific problems he needs to figure out exactly what they are and what he can do about them. Someone who has been through that adjustment phase can probably give better advice than I can.

Randomizer, it sounds like you're one of those who made the adjustment.