Could this be counter productive???

This very post proves it true.

Actually it proves your point false.
The "true american" version you claim is sadly in decline never really existed.

BTW you keep saying about equality and the wonderful freedom for women. My memory is a bit fuzzy about primogeny could you remind me again when exactly all this womens equality came about? maybe for example use a bastion against the islamic horde like switzerland, when did they get dragged kicking and screaming to actually dilute some of their institutionalised misogeny?