Mod lists and must have enabled patches ???

[drakkhen20]

ok im torn and fighting with myself and have know idea whats the best mod and in what order to best fit them in. i am confused as to what and where and how the patch by TDW works still and how to know if it is working and what mods are best suited for the patcher settings. i have sobers all in one mods list which i will post as i need help and advice and opinions and suggestions. ive posted something like this before but i feel that i didnt explain myself as well as i hoped. two of the best things that immerses me into this great game is the game itself but i know some things in game are not authentic or as real as they should be. im aware it is just a game and has its limits. i dont expect the realist most awsome experience known to man out of this but i would like to experience the best that is offered out of the patch and mods provided. so two things really three but the third is taken care of already. 1- uboat funtionality and authentic as possible, 2 the environment, 3 the campaign (as stated already taken care of. but the main two first is what id really like to focus on. so knowing this here are the mods.....



sobers game loading tips V8 SH5
NDB,NDH OM#1 - No Dialog Indicator
sobers multi color mod V5
DynEnv v2.9 - 1. Main Mod
DynEnv v2.9 - 5.c Ambient Settings - Darker Nights-No Murky Waters
DynEnv v2.9 - 2. Main Mod Low Resolution Patch
sobers best ever fog V31 SH5
sobers base sky mechanics V1
sobers waves mod V30 SH5
Water reflections intensity varied by available sunlight by TheDarkWraith
Small_trees_SH5_V1
sobers smoke screen V1 SH5 (DynEnv compatible)
sobers more trees SH5
sobers storm Clouds v2 SH5
SH5_7A_Conning_Fix
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_byTheBeast
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1
#Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1_HotFix
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1 (available by date) V9 by sober
EUF_UBoat_FX_v0_0_3_ byTheBeast
MightyFine Crew Mod 1.2.1 Stock w beards
MCCD_1.04_MFCM_1.2.1_compatible
Reworked Morale and Abilities v.1.1
Speech fixes and additions (english version)
FX_Update_0_0_22_ByTheDarkWraith
FX_Update_0_0_22_Torpedoes (modified for torpedoes failure patches)
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_ByTheDarkWraith
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_alt_officer_wounded_by_Torpedo
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_Real_Navigation
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_RadCapTools_0_2_alpha
Manos Scopes-patch for 16x9
IRAI_0_0_41_ByTheDarkWraith
sobers TDWUserOptions for mega mod +Menu SH5 V13
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part1_07.06.2013
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 2_07.06.2013
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 4_20.07.2013
Sjizzle's - MarineQuadrat Charts for NewUIs v. 0.00.2
Equip_Upgrade_Dates_Chart
R.E.M_by_Xrundel_TheBeast_1.2
sobers green crew training V4 SH5
Church's Compass Dials Mod v2.2 - Option Two
OPEN HORIZONS II v2.5
sobers OH2.5 Kiel Lite mod V4 SH5
OH II v2.5 Flag_Wind_Patch
OH II v2.5 Grid Request fix Patch SH5
sobers shipwreck mod V8 SH5
R.S.D. - Reworked Submarine Damage v5.7 by vdr1981_Main mod
R.S.D. v5.7 - Indestructible UZO patch
R.S.D. & R.E.M. - GHG Hydrophone add-on (no hyd on surface)
MQK Gradient_IO
MQK LocationMaps_IO
MQK ShapeTextures_NO
sobers Lights Cfg V10 SH5
Trevally Tutorial - All v0.2(for OHIIv1.3)
Trevally Automated Scripts v0.6
Trevally Harbour & Kiel Canal Pilot v3.1
Trevally TDC Help v2
Patrolsearch autoscriptsV04
MadMaxs_SH5_Subdiesel (mono) v2
sobers hud sounds V1 SH5
sobers no footstep sound mod SH5 V2
sobers Realistic contrast V15 SH5
sobers realistic underwater FX8 SH5
sobers Blackout lights V2 SH5
sobers NO ship bow wave mod SH5
Shadow Improvement ModLR
EQuaTool 01.01 by AvM - Large Style
AOB slide ruller for TDW UIs and MO by stoianm
Warfox deck crew always whispering SH5 German Version
WHF-FUC_We Have Flooding-Flooding Under Control_Fix
Shallow Waters Voice Be Gone
gap - HD 1 deg Scope Bearing v 1.0
sobers No bullet trasers SH5
AMMO_v1.0_SH5_by_Raven_2012
sobers dead is dead V3 NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0 SH5

.....ok so out of these mods, which reflect the best for my taste mentioned above? i dont want real navigation and i like to keep all my grid stuff and torpedo trget stuff on map if possible. thank you for your patience and time reading all this and your advice and input. it means alot as i owned this game since it has come out and have yet to complete it still and would like to enjoy the game to the end with mods. thank you all.

drakkhen20