Trials of Life

Oberon · 08-06-15, 03:00 PM

Approve or disapprove, we're all human. It's a shame that you and your wife have split up, but there is life on the other side. At least you've worked something out with your daughter, that can be the hardest thing in any break-up. I've seen two relationships go down the toilet, and trying to work out why is probably one of the hardest things about it, but it happens, the love goes out of a relationship and eventually the friendship isn't enough and things just drift apart.
I just hope that you and her are able to sort all things out amicably and able to go forward as best as possible.

Herr-Berbunch · 08-06-15, 03:11 PM

I've seen the way she bent over backwards to be equal with her ex-husband, who was just an arse the whole time. I plan on being as equal, but without being the arse. At least with that relationship it was her that finished it, this time it's me, well technically it's her as she asked me to leave and said there would be no way back, but you know what I mean.

Thanks for your words Jamie, means a lot, I appear to have alienated most around here.

Aktungbby · 08-06-15, 03:13 PM

wha...!!!YOU DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO TELL HER IT'S JUST A BLUE MOON THING!

Jimbuna · 08-07-15, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Herr-Berbunch

I appear to have alienated most around here.

On the contrary Tony and certainly not those that matter.

I've read quite a few pearls of wisdom on this thread and won't attempt to add anything more but suffice to say...we have met on more than one occasion in person (I'll not mention the sharing a room part

), you do have and have used my mobile number in the past should you feel the need to use it and we are not a million miles apart.

Take time for some quiet reflection and work out a coping strategy that is beneficial to both of you and especially your daughter.....Oh, sorry, I said I wasn't going to do that

Chin up mate, it'll all come good in the end

u crank · 08-06-15, 03:29 PM

Don't sweat it HB. It happens. It happens a lot. The best you can do is to remain on reasonably good terms for your daughters sake. Wishing you all the best.

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Originally Posted by Oberon

Approve or disapprove, we're all human.

QFT.

Betonov · 08-06-15, 03:56 PM

Sorry to hear that.
You know where to find me. I already gained trust about such matters from two other members.

Herr-Berbunch · 08-06-15, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Betonov

Sorry to hear that.
You know where to find me. I already gained trust about such matters from two other members.

Ah yes, I remember you telling me.

Haha, just kidding.

Somewhere near Jesenice, flights in to Ljubjlana then just walk north till it gets a bit hilly. Need my passport renewing first though

Betonov · 08-06-15, 04:29 PM

Northwest though, just before the Ljubljana basin narrows into the upper Sava valley is a line of villages on the sunny side of a mountain range.

Oberon · 08-06-15, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Betonov

Northwest though, just before the Ljubljana basin narrows into the upper Sava valley is a line of villages on the sunny side of a mountain range.

Just keep going until you see this:

Stealhead · 08-06-15, 08:51 PM

If you see Aussie SAS(or maybe Brit SAS in Malaya) in 1966 Vietnam I'd say its probably a good time to call it a night.

CCIP · 08-06-15, 04:44 PM

Over time, I've realized that it's important to learn to accept that people change - but what's more, sometimes it's not just people but you that changes over time, and that's alright too. It's often a lot harder to notice that about yourself, and hey, if someone or something else helps clue you into it, I suppose that's a blessing.

We're just glad to have you around!

08-06-15, 03:11 PM	#2
Herr-Berbunch Kaiser Bill's batman Join Date: May 2010 Location: AN72 Posts: 13,203 Downloads: 76 Uploads: 0	I've seen the way she bent over backwards to be equal with her ex-husband, who was just an arse the whole time. I plan on being as equal, but without being the arse. At least with that relationship it was her that finished it, this time it's me, well technically it's her as she asked me to leave and said there would be no way back, but you know what I mean. Thanks for your words Jamie, means a lot, I appear to have alienated most around here. __________________

08-06-15, 03:13 PM	#3
Aktungbby Gefallen Engel U-666 Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: On a tilted, overheated, overpopulated spinning mudball on Collision course with Andromeda Galaxy Posts: 30,066 Downloads: 24 Uploads: 0	wha...!!!YOU DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO TELL HER IT'S JUST A BLUE MOON THING! __________________ "Only two things are infinite; The Universe and human squirrelyness?!!

08-06-15, 04:44 PM	#11
CCIP Navy Seal Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Waterloo, Canada Posts: 8,700 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 2	Over time, I've realized that it's important to learn to accept that people change - but what's more, sometimes it's not just people but you that changes over time, and that's alright too. It's often a lot harder to notice that about yourself, and hey, if someone or something else helps clue you into it, I suppose that's a blessing. We're just glad to have you around! __________________ There are only forty people in the world and five of them are hamburgers. -Don Van Vliet (aka Captain Beefheart)

08-06-15, 03:00 PM	#1
Oberon Lucky Jack Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 25,976 Downloads: 61 Uploads: 20	Approve or disapprove, we're all human. It's a shame that you and your wife have split up, but there is life on the other side. At least you've worked something out with your daughter, that can be the hardest thing in any break-up. I've seen two relationships go down the toilet, and trying to work out why is probably one of the hardest things about it, but it happens, the love goes out of a relationship and eventually the friendship isn't enough and things just drift apart. I just hope that you and her are able to sort all things out amicably and able to go forward as best as possible.

08-06-15, 03:56 PM	#6
Betonov Navy Seal Join Date: May 2009 Location: Slovenia Posts: 8,647 Downloads: 26 Uploads: 0	Sorry to hear that. You know where to find me. I already gained trust about such matters from two other members.

08-06-15, 04:29 PM	#8
Betonov Navy Seal Join Date: May 2009 Location: Slovenia Posts: 8,647 Downloads: 26 Uploads: 0	Northwest though, just before the Ljubljana basin narrows into the upper Sava valley is a line of villages on the sunny side of a mountain range.

08-06-15, 08:51 PM	#10
Stealhead Navy Seal Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Kentucky Posts: 5,421 Downloads: 85 Uploads: 0	If you see Aussie SAS(or maybe Brit SAS in Malaya) in 1966 Vietnam I'd say its probably a good time to call it a night.