Dating an older woman - Page 2

Armistead · 09-01-13, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Platapus

I was actually looking forward to The Frau having Menopause. I heard that one of the symptoms was mood swings and I thought that the change might be for the better.

Protip: Don't tell your lady that. It does not end well.

Yea, laying in bed in he dark with the nag the other week and she asked me did I think she was still pretty. I told her she still looked good in the dark. Before menopause she would've laughed. She use to be great in the sack, now she's a pain in the ass.

Aktungbby · 09-01-13, 07:13 PM

Make sure when you visit the next ancestral slave cemetery in one of your family tree outings, there ain't a pre-dug hole! 'Nag' vengeance is a grisly thing!

Bubblehead1980 · 09-01-13, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Armistead

I would think at your age it shouldn't be a problem, unless you want kids.

If you were born in 80, I don't see the cougar thing being a big issue if she's less than 40.

I wasnt born in 80, just a number i chose when i signed up at ubi back in the day, think it wouldnt let me use my birth year for some reason, carried name over so people would know me here. Well, she is in mid 30's im pushing into later 20's. I don't want children and dont see that changing to be honest. I think the big issue is melding our lives enough to actually date and not stay the casual level we are now. She likes my friends but of course it's a different thing, my friends are all my age and mostly single, so when we go out its to a pub etc, he friends are mostly married, want us over for a dinner party , which is fine, I like both but we both have gotten annoyed with each others friends. Politics are an issue too so we just kind of steer clear of that, she's a liberal and that annoys me but most women are so its just something to deal with.

Heard some valid points here.Most of my friends consists of "she is a hot well off 35 year old, go for it" and if it was just sex would be one thing but turns out there are feelings on both ends, all that nonsense lol.

Armistead · 09-01-13, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Bubblehead1980

I wasnt born in 80, just a number i chose when i signed up at ubi back in the day, think it wouldnt let me use my birth year for some reason, carried name over so people would know me here. Well, she is in mid 30's im pushing into later 20's. I don't want children and dont see that changing to be honest. I think the big issue is melding our lives enough to actually date and not stay the casual level we are now. She likes my friends but of course it's a different thing, my friends are all my age and mostly single, so when we go out its to a pub etc, he friends are mostly married, want us over for a dinner party , which is fine, I like both but we both have gotten annoyed with each others friends. Politics are an issue too so we just kind of steer clear of that, she's a liberal and that annoys me but most women are so its just something to deal with.

Heard some valid points here.Most of my friends consists of "she is a hot well off 35 year old, go for it" and if it was just sex would be one thing but turns out there are feelings on both ends, all that nonsense lol.

Be careful, it's easy to get invested, then try to fix issues. My brother has been doing it for years. The relationship is bad, but he thinks because he's invested years and feels in love, he won't give it up. They had a lot of chemistry to start, but were very different. They've broke wedding dates several times. He's rather conservative, she's liberal. He ain't gonna move on, just let the high and lows continue until he breaks

Sailor Steve · 09-01-13, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Aktungbby

"than I" you illiterate lothario; Mein Gott u r an offizer in der ubootwaffe after alles!

If you're going to lecture people, at least fix your quotes so they look right.

Aktungbby · 09-01-13, 10:22 PM

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If you're going to lecture people, at least fix your quotes so they look right.

Danke Herr moderator-mentor! At least I don' t take up space with the photos anymore. Still having problems with downloads to my SH5 though.

Jimbuna · 09-02-13, 05:00 AM

Not sure I'm qualified much here seeing as my wife is only 6 months older than me but I believe if the chemistry is right, we are now in our thirtieth year together, age needn't be all that big a consideration.

Armistead · 09-02-13, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Aktungbby

Danke Herr moderator-mentor! At least I don' t take up space with the photos anymore. Still having problems with downloads to my SH5 though.

Ignore the evil man behind the curtain.

I enjoy your postings, even if I don't understand them.

Herr-Berbunch · 09-02-13, 11:14 AM

I've had a good relationship with an older woman - I didn't last but I put that down to my immaturity at the time. It was fun until the end, as long as you both know where you stand now then you'll be okay - just watch as your standpoints may move so as always communication is key.

Good luck

Aktungbby · 09-02-13, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Armistead

Ignore the evil man behind the curtain.

I enjoy your postings, even if I don't understand them.

Good lord, I'm in Kansas without a Lemat or Toto. Actually all relationships are with an 'older woman' since they regard us as their principal child anyway with a little pet therapy thrown in. After 33 years, I'm still happily clueless...and luvin' it!??

Wolferz · 09-03-13, 01:35 PM

Good woman pulls plow.

Bilge_Rat · 09-05-13, 03:57 PM

Best advice I can give is to follow your heart/gut instinct.

Relationships resist a logical analysis.

Finding someone to sleep with is easy, finding someone with that special something that makes you fall in love with them is rare and special, especially if it is mutual.

If it feels right, go for it, a few years difference is unimportant.

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Jimbuna Chief of the Boat Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 250 metres below the surface Posts: 190,661 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 13	Not sure I'm qualified much here seeing as my wife is only 6 months older than me but I believe if the chemistry is right, we are now in our thirtieth year together, age needn't be all that big a consideration. __________________ Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something. Oh my God, not again!!

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Herr-Berbunch Kaiser Bill's batman Join Date: May 2010 Location: AN72 Posts: 13,203 Downloads: 76 Uploads: 0	I've had a good relationship with an older woman - I didn't last but I put that down to my immaturity at the time. It was fun until the end, as long as you both know where you stand now then you'll be okay - just watch as your standpoints may move so as always communication is key. Good luck __________________

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Wolferz Navy Seal Join Date: May 2007 Location: On a mighty quest for the Stick of Truth Posts: 5,963 Downloads: 52 Uploads: 0	Good woman pulls plow. __________________ Tomorrow never comes

09-05-13, 03:57 PM	#27
Bilge_Rat Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: standing watch... Posts: 3,856 Downloads: 344 Uploads: 0	Best advice I can give is to follow your heart/gut instinct. Relationships resist a logical analysis. Finding someone to sleep with is easy, finding someone with that special something that makes you fall in love with them is rare and special, especially if it is mutual. If it feels right, go for it, a few years difference is unimportant. __________________