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Old 12-07-11, 10:31 AM   #1
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Denying someone the same rights as everyone else because of what goes on in their bedroom is disgusting and it's deserving of all the shame, scorn and ridicule that can be heaped upon it.
I have said that many times before and so I cut it short.

Marriage and tax reliefs (that at least are intended for families creating and then raising children), is about the vital and important interest of the whole community: that couples form up that have babies together - which the future tax-payers and supporters of the society when the current generation of active workers and parents has become old. This interest is to be protected, and that even gets explicitly said in the constitution of some countries for example Germany. This intrerst poverrules onconditionally any interest formulated by subordinate groupos or minorities, because it touches upon the survivability of the whole community as a functional social and cultural entity.

As a single man, I accept this "discrimination" of myself, because I a.) see the need, and b.) do not feel discriminated at all.

What makes me feel discrminated are homosexual lobby groups demandign the same priviliges for themselves like for heterosexual couples, which would pout them above me, but without said homosexual couples being of the same benefit and value to society. Society or state must care for heterosexual couples forming up in sufficient numbers and having a sufficient number of babies. Gay or lesbian people in this regard are of zero interest for state or society, they have no social function that must be of concern for the state or society, and they do not fulfill any function for the community by their form of living together: they are as irrelevant as is me being befriended with somebody I know and having a beer with him/her. Single people like me, also must not be of special interest for community or state. Gays are free to live together if they want. Let them, I accept them the same freedom I claim for myself. Singlse like me are also free to stay alone if they want. Families given special priviliged protection do not discriminate myself. But gays demanding more for themselves than what I get, but not serving any further function going beyond that of singles like myself - these are discriminating people like me.

I want families being given special recognition, protection and all that. If non-families now get the same privileges, than these privileges get relativised until they are no privileges anymore.

As a former psychologist beign very critical to psychology and sociology, I am critical of certain trends in attempts of "gender mainstreaming" and rejecion of difference sbertween people in the name of mandatory collective excercises in uniformity and infantility. The claimed total arbitrariness of education models of children, I object to. Models that claim that children are better served by taking them away from intact fam ilies and putting them into Kindergarden already at the age of 1 year (goal in Germany) I call a deliberate crime again st the children and - sorry, Steve - a damn disgrace. I also deny the right for lesbian or gay couples to adopt foreign children, like singles like me also shouild not adopt froeign children. Children need both a father and a mother, because both persons fulfill different social role models and psychological functions. When someone dies, the partner may end up with raising the child al alone. But this is the result from accident - it is not to be declared as desirable, just to open the door for homosexual adoptation. I do not buy these social engineer's "studies" claiming that it does not make a difference wheter kids have two men or two women as parents, or a mixed couple or a single person. It makes differences.

Psychology, my own branch that is, is massively guilty of kneeling to the Zeitgeist and political demands in order to be given further reputation, influence and power py politics and said Zeitgeist. It needs that alliance, because in principle by itself psychology and sociology have much less substantial truth to offer than they claim for themselves in order to shine. I did not quit that field for no reasons, although there were a couple of more. But this was one of the primary reasons.

Intact families and babies are important for us. Gays, Lesbians couples, singles like me are not that important - not regarding the social issues and complex cultural implications touched upon by these things. After all, nature has dresigned human sdpecies to be a species reproducing by mixing up the genepool due to TWO sexes existing. And no matter what you try: homo sapiens primarily is a dual-sex design, and procreates and ensures the specie'S design by sex between a male and a female. That is the norm, that is how it is meant , and that is why we still exist today and did not go amiss several tens of thousands of years ago. And that is what makes a heterosexcual arriage forever more adorable and desirable, than a homosexual marriage. The first is "normal". The latter is an exeption that serves no communal function in securing the communities future and ongoing existence by making babies (that needs to be protected due to their weakness).

Me and cutting it short. Yeah, I know I know...
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Old 12-07-11, 10:36 AM   #2
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but witho9ut being of the same benefit and vlaue to society.
You measure how deserving someone is of their human rights by their perceived worth to society, determined by how likely they are to bring more children into an already overpopulated world. Interesting.

And the idea is completely laughable. If marriages were all about babies, then the elderly and the sterile would be discriminated against in your world. And to postulate the fact that you should meet some "criteria" to be worthy of human rights is ridiculous on its face as it ignores the very concept of what human rights are.

But I've read your diatribes against this before, so it's be like banging my head into a wall to rehash all the problems with that idea, so I won't.
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You measure how deserving someone is of their human rights by their perceived worth to society, determined by how likely they are to bring more children into an already overpopulated world. Interesting.

And the idea is completely laughable. If marriages were all about babies, then the elderly and the sterile would be discriminated against in your world. And to postulate the fact that you should meet some "criteria" to be worthy of human rights is ridiculous on its face as it ignores the very concept of what human rights are.

But I've read your diatribes against this before, so it's be like banging my head into a wall to rehash all the problems with that idea, so I won't.
The privilige of marriage is being given on basis of the most often scenario to be seen over centuies and millenias: that where boy and girl come together, there is often a baby - or more - sooner or later. There may not even be love involved. But since a long time, this is what happens most of the times you look at events: boy meets girl: baby. Natuzre wanmted it that way. And it happens more often this way, than any other scenario. Yes. Old peopole occasioanlly marry, too. Yes, there are sterile couples (best candidates for adoptations I say). Yes, babies become b ig and strong and leave the house. And still: this is the scenario that happens most of the time and is of the only real importance for the community: boy meets girls, having babies. No babies, no next generation. No next generation, civilisation dies. That simple.

Yes, I think that in some ways communal interestz overrule individual interest. Not always, but as a general rule of thumb and on several imporetant, vital issues, I indeed agree with Mr. Spock's famous quote. And occasionally I agree with Kirk'S not less famous reply as well.

BTW, I am absolutely serious when saying gays discriminate signles like me when claiming for themselves rights like heterosexual couples with singles like me being exlcuded from said rights. It is a injustice and a blatant violation of the human dignity of single people that they should enjoy less social respectability and benfits and protection than gays, lesbians and hetero couples. Do we do any damage top society just becasue we do not have babies or refuse to live in a homosexual relation? Or are we indirectly put under pressure to turn ourselves into homosexuals - and then getting access to said priviliges for - well, for what? For being gay? Or for having no babies?

Maybe we think it wrong from all beginning. Mybe we should sanctionise hetero couples raising children, and should but getting babies under a social ban, and penalty taxes. It cannot be tolerated that the social function of families is seen as more vital than that of social relations of gays and lesbians and singles.

I should ask the EU bureau for social engineering over this. The ideology of gender mainstreaming - the systematic denial of any differences between men and women and the declaration of the ultimate arbitrariness of sexual role models independant from biological sex: there is a whole pseudo-academical literature about it already - is not for nothing integral part of EU policies since the treaty of I think Amsterdam it was.
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Mybe we should sanctionise hetero couples raising children, and should but getting babies under a social ban, and penalty taxes.
Not that bad of an idea. Given a world population of 7 billion and climbing we need to stop rewarding people for having kids and start making them pay extra for the extra resources their offspring consume.
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Not that bad of an idea. Given a world population of 7 billion and climbing we need to stop rewarding people for having kids and start making them pay extra for the extra resources their offspring consume.
Wrong. We need to frezze the growth of populations in poor underdeveloped countries wehre despite the ongoing starvation and the erosion of the land due to too much cattle getting held and where endless natural disasters haunt the land and the people, they nevertheless insist on having 6, 8, 10, even 16 children. In the longer run, these numbers of several billions in the poor countries need to be redc ued. Eithger we find ways to do it humanely, or nature will care for it in it's own ways. In the developed nations we need to find a way to stabilise our society's age structure, else our Western nations go down the drain due to overaging populations, or they lose their identity and cultural nature due to excessive migration of foreigners who sooner or later no longer stay a minority, but take over from the former owners of the "homeland". From that stability (to be reached) then we can start to redesign our communities and economic structures to tailor them so that they stay functional even with smaller sizes and smaller workforces.

This insane concept of unlimited growth in each and every regard, needs to be skipped. Dynamically fluctuating stability and "Nachhaltigkeit" are much-much-much more important.

The Chinese had a strict one-child policy (still have?). It now backfires on them for various reasons different from mere population size. It has caused mssaive distortions in their society's age structure. I also recommend to study the excessive social distortions in Japanese society. It is a cultural and social drama they have in Japan. I read comments by sociological researchers saying the chnage in their sopcial structures caused by modenr socviety since WWII does more long-term damage to thecom munal integrity then WWII's loss of lives and overall destruction.

My old mentor and trainer, a Japanese, said the same. His family was scattered around the whole globe as well due to the distortions caused by the war, and then the modernisation of traditional society. Their whole middle class is desintegrating.
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