How did you find your future partner for life? - Page 3

Gerald · 04-16-11, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by MH

Having sex with the one you love the most?

I met my when i was drunk and divorsed after getting sober.

Have one butifull and smart doughter out of this mess.

The "maybe" would have been better in reverse order, with hindsight...

MH · 04-16-11, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Vendor

The "maybe" would have been better in reverse order, with hindsight...

Thats sort of too enigmatic....

Gerald · 04-16-11, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by MH

Thats sort of too enigmatic....

Yes...so true...

Feuer Frei! · 04-16-11, 07:04 AM

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Originally Posted by sober

Been married for 22 years , still looking .

Priceless.
You are always good for a laugh sober

Gerald · 04-16-11, 07:14 AM

But deep down, I hope he and his wife are looking in the right direction

Jimbuna · 04-16-11, 07:26 AM

Married over 26 years now...two great kids (one of each) and absolutely no regrets.

Platapus · 04-16-11, 07:39 AM

I remember our second date. The Frau said those three words that really solidified our relationship.

"That's him, Officer!"

Gerald · 04-16-11, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Platapus

I remember our second date. The Frau said those three words that really solidified our relationship.

"That's him, Officer!"

Fine respectful words!

Armistead · 04-16-11, 11:33 AM

I met mine at a dance club. She was sitting in a corner turning down every guy. It was a bacherelorette party. I asked her to dance and got the sweetest "no thank you." It was love. I went to my usual tricks, befriend the fatty of the group and got a seat between them. I ignored her and talked with the fatty. This showed her I wasn't shallow. Told the fatty I was into civil war reenacting and the mark heard. She was big into history. We then got into a two hours discussion over history, finally danced. I didn't ask her out, just said I hope you come back, but she said clubs weren't her thing. The next night she showed up alone....muhahaha

After that I spent 11 months dating before anything sexually happened. That was a first and it was refreshing. We mostly did auctions, history and sat on the back porch of her log cabin talking until the sun came up. I finally got to know someone before the love word came up. We dated for years and been married for 15 years and I've never once thought of cheating on her, nor have I had a single doubt about her. We've seen many hard times, but quitting never came up.

Only got a few pics on my game rig, but here after a few years of dating with my bro's daughter, guessing mid 30's

She's 48 now, think she was almost 47 here, but still looking good for almost 50...me, er, not so much. She thinks she looks mad, I tell her it's sexy...

Gerald · 04-16-11, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Armistead

I met mine at a dance club. She was sitting in a corner turning down every guy. It was a bacherelorette party. I asked her to dance and got the sweetest "no thank you." It was love. I went to my usual tricks, befriend the fatty of the group and got a seat between them. I ignored her and talked with the fatty. This showed her I wasn't shallow. Told the fatty I was into civil war reenacting and the mark heard. She was big into history. We then got into a two hours discussion over history, finally danced. I didn't ask her out, just said I hope you come back, but she said clubs weren't her thing. The next night she showed up alone....muhahaha

After that I spent 11 months dating before anything sexually happened. That was a first and it was refreshing. We mostly did auctions, history and sat on the back porch of her log cabin talking until the sun came up. I finally got to know someone before the love word came up. We dated for years and been married for 15 years and I've never once thought of cheating on her, nor have I had a single doubt about her. We've seen many hard times, but quitting never came up.

Only got a few pics on my game rig, but here after a few years of dating with my bro's daughter, guessing mid 30's

She's 48 now, think she was almost 47 here, but still looking good for almost 50...me, er, not so much. She thinks she looks mad, I tell her it's sexy...

Nice picture and a respectful story that led to the right,

elephantium · 04-16-11, 02:05 PM

My wife and I basically met in college because her roommate had a crush on me.

We were working in the same student job, and she invited me over to have a look at her plants -- she was very proud of getting her own mini-garden going in her dorm room -- and while we were talking there, my wife-to-be came out into the living room and said hi.

We added each other on ICQ and started chatting. At first, it was just cool because there was someone on my contact list who I knew in real life!

Before long, we were dating - and we've been married for nine years now.

Platapus · 04-16-11, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Vendor

Nice picture and a respectful story that led to the right,

"Usual tricks" "befriending the fatty" Referring to the lady as "the mark" is respectful?

I am glad it worked out for him, but I would hardly call that story respectful.

Armistead · 04-16-11, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Platapus

"Usual tricks" "befriending the fatty" Referring to the lady as "the mark" is respectful?

I am glad it worked out for him, but I would hardly call that story respectful.

Please, I admitted that's how I was over 20 years ago, used tricks and tactics, terrible with women, until I found one that undid me...

I hardly doubt I was the only fellow that played games when single...and I'm sure had a few played on me.

AVGWarhawk · 04-16-11, 03:28 PM

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used tricks and tactics

Depending on the neighborhood cash works.

Gerald · 04-16-11, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Platapus

"Usual tricks" "befriending the fatty" Referring to the lady as "the mark" is respectful?

I am glad it worked out for him, but I would hardly call that story respectful.

Everything is relative in the person's current circumstances, and I do not think it was wrong to call it respectful

04-16-11, 07:14 AM	#35
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04-16-11, 07:39 AM	#37
Platapus Fleet Admiral Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 19,386 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 0	I remember our second date. The Frau said those three words that really solidified our relationship. "That's him, Officer!" __________________ abusus non tollit usum - A right should NOT be withheld from people on the basis that some tend to abuse that right.

04-16-11, 11:33 AM	#39
Armistead Rear Admiral Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: on the Dan Posts: 10,880 Downloads: 364 Uploads: 0	I met mine at a dance club. She was sitting in a corner turning down every guy. It was a bacherelorette party. I asked her to dance and got the sweetest "no thank you." It was love. I went to my usual tricks, befriend the fatty of the group and got a seat between them. I ignored her and talked with the fatty. This showed her I wasn't shallow. Told the fatty I was into civil war reenacting and the mark heard. She was big into history. We then got into a two hours discussion over history, finally danced. I didn't ask her out, just said I hope you come back, but she said clubs weren't her thing. The next night she showed up alone....muhahaha After that I spent 11 months dating before anything sexually happened. That was a first and it was refreshing. We mostly did auctions, history and sat on the back porch of her log cabin talking until the sun came up. I finally got to know someone before the love word came up. We dated for years and been married for 15 years and I've never once thought of cheating on her, nor have I had a single doubt about her. We've seen many hard times, but quitting never came up. Only got a few pics on my game rig, but here after a few years of dating with my bro's daughter, guessing mid 30's She's 48 now, think she was almost 47 here, but still looking good for almost 50...me, er, not so much. She thinks she looks mad, I tell her it's sexy...

04-16-11, 02:05 PM	#41
elephantium Bosun Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 62 Downloads: 0 Uploads: 0	My wife and I basically met in college because her roommate had a crush on me. We were working in the same student job, and she invited me over to have a look at her plants -- she was very proud of getting her own mini-garden going in her dorm room -- and while we were talking there, my wife-to-be came out into the living room and said hi. We added each other on ICQ and started chatting. At first, it was just cool because there was someone on my contact list who I knew in real life! Before long, we were dating - and we've been married for nine years now.