Northwestern University sex toy show 'disturbing'

Armistead · 03-05-11, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptainHaplo

Did any of you read the article? Did any of you read the statement by the professor?

They have had all kinds of "guests", swingers, gay couples, transgendered, "kinksters", etc and because some woman with a "mechanical device" is there people get offended?

Of course, it doesn't matter that the instructor gave a serious lecture about human sexuality BEFORE the demonstration. The fact one happened just means that there could be no learning at all huh? Some of ya'll would really be suprised at what a demonstration can teach. In fact, a friend of mine is a heck of an expert in Shibari/Kinbaku, which is a skill I sadly lack. I fully intend to take some time to learn the art, and it will be done by demonstration. Not all "erotic" things are purely sexual. Just because some of you might have a "hard" time focusing on the underlying mental and emotional structures that create arousal simply due to there being a "nakd chick doin it with something" doesn't mean everyone would be...

In fact, I do not doubt that many of you would be suprised to learn that many of the "kinks" that exist sexually - especially in the D/s world, are not sexually focused at all by those who live that lifestyle. But, because anything has a sexual, PHYSICAL component, it must be "bad".....

Sad really.

If you really think college age kids today are learning anything new by watching a woman get pounded by a machine....please. It doesn't matter how much the Professor talked, if you're human any sexual eplicit activity will create sexual arousal for normal folk. It's not that it's wrong, but the wrong place. No doubt the Professor has more of an agenda than human studies. Studies like this should be more clinical in nature.

Outside of school, many groups offer classes or get togethers, have no problem with this, if couples want to swing, pizz on eachother, screw robots, chant, have at it if that's what makes you happy, you'll get no judgment from me.

We have a couple that swings in our neighborhood, been married for 14 years, 3 kids, seem perfectly loving, trusting and happy.