Well that sucks!

raymond6751 · 05-15-10, 07:54 AM

With me, it was my wife. Thank God you didn't get that far.

Nothing anyone can say here will make it feel better.

It feels better to tell someone, though. Let it out. Move on.

Freiwillige · 05-15-10, 08:35 AM

Yea admiting my own faults and moving to change them is always good. I hate to play the blame game when alot of the blame falls squarely on my lap.

I to was married once and it was short lived and it destroyed me. In fact that was when my jobless lazy and complacent downward spiral began. Sahra just found me when I was at a low point. She gave me alot of support but I just wasn't ready to face the world and continue moving forward. In fact one of her biggest issues that really bothered her was that I am still married even know I have not seen my wife in several years. She asked me several times to get devorced but I failed to save any money towards that goal because i was busy spending it on what now I realise was wasted time. Bars, toys, computer upgrades etc. I mean I clearly didnt have my priority's straight and I used my failed marriage as another excuse to not push myself forward even know I was long over that marriage.

It is for the best that this happened. I hope to see us together in the future living our dreams but I understand that that is probably not going to happen. I know from many relationships that once they set out to move on their is little you can do but live your life and hope that something down the road, Mutual friends, Memmory's or just coincidence brings you back together again.

I can let her go, and I have. Its like the old saying "If you love someone let them go." Maybe she will be back and for the past few days I was assuring myself that that would be the case but even know I know that she is in love with me their is always somebody to pick up the peices. ANd she has made up her mind about us anyhow. So here is a salute to her and her happiness and a salute to you.

Reece · 05-15-10, 09:19 AM

Hopefully there is something wonderful just around the corner!

I wish you all the best.

Cheers.

Jimbuna · 05-15-10, 09:53 AM

Positive buoyancy Frei

GoldenRivet · 05-16-10, 05:13 AM

If you ever start missing the life of a man with a girlfriend you could always do like this guy did... Craigslist has everything!

http://toronto.en.craigslist.ca/tor/msr/1737817677.html

Freiwillige · 05-16-10, 07:55 AM

That's funny!

Sailor Steve · 05-16-10, 11:08 AM

Reminds me of an ad I saw in a local Want Ads paper, a long long time ago:

"Wife says motorcycle goes or she does. Either one $500."

05-15-10, 07:54 AM	#1
raymond6751 Admirable Mike Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 1,338 Downloads: 421 Uploads: 0	Been there With me, it was my wife. Thank God you didn't get that far. Nothing anyone can say here will make it feel better. It feels better to tell someone, though. Let it out. Move on. __________________ Game Designer: Close The Atlantic - World War Three https://boardgamegeek.com/boardgame/...orld-war-three

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Reece CINC Pacific Fleet Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Down Under Posts: 34,827 Downloads: 171 Uploads: 0	Hopefully there is something wonderful just around the corner! I wish you all the best. Cheers. __________________ *Sub captains go down with their ship!*

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Jimbuna Chief of the Boat Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 250 metres below the surface Posts: 191,051 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 13	Positive buoyancy Frei __________________ Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something. Oh my God, not again!!

05-16-10, 05:13 AM	#5
GoldenRivet Subsim Aviator Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 8,726 Downloads: 146 Uploads: 0	If you ever start missing the life of a man with a girlfriend you could always do like this guy did... Craigslist has everything! http://toronto.en.craigslist.ca/tor/msr/1737817677.html __________________

05-16-10, 11:08 AM	#7
Sailor Steve Eternal Patrol Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: High in the mountains of Utah Posts: 50,369 Downloads: 745 Uploads: 249	Reminds me of an ad I saw in a local Want Ads paper, a long long time ago: "Wife says motorcycle goes or she does. Either one $500." __________________ “Never do anything you can't take back.” —Rocky Russo

05-15-10, 08:35 AM	#2
Freiwillige The Old Man Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Phx. Az Posts: 1,458 Downloads: 24 Uploads: 0	Yea admiting my own faults and moving to change them is always good. I hate to play the blame game when alot of the blame falls squarely on my lap. I to was married once and it was short lived and it destroyed me. In fact that was when my jobless lazy and complacent downward spiral began. Sahra just found me when I was at a low point. She gave me alot of support but I just wasn't ready to face the world and continue moving forward. In fact one of her biggest issues that really bothered her was that I am still married even know I have not seen my wife in several years. She asked me several times to get devorced but I failed to save any money towards that goal because i was busy spending it on what now I realise was wasted time. Bars, toys, computer upgrades etc. I mean I clearly didnt have my priority's straight and I used my failed marriage as another excuse to not push myself forward even know I was long over that marriage. It is for the best that this happened. I hope to see us together in the future living our dreams but I understand that that is probably not going to happen. I know from many relationships that once they set out to move on their is little you can do but live your life and hope that something down the road, Mutual friends, Memmory's or just coincidence brings you back together again. I can let her go, and I have. Its like the old saying "If you love someone let them go." Maybe she will be back and for the past few days I was assuring myself that that would be the case but even know I know that she is in love with me their is always somebody to pick up the peices. ANd she has made up her mind about us anyhow. So here is a salute to her and her happiness and a salute to you.

05-16-10, 07:55 AM	#6
Freiwillige The Old Man Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Phx. Az Posts: 1,458 Downloads: 24 Uploads: 0	That's funny!