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Get rid of anything and everything that reminds you of her. Gifts, pictures, letters, whatever. Do not talk to her, do not write, cut all contact completely, and fully. These are items that only aid to dwell on the past, which only leads to more tears.
Do everything to put her out of your mind, but retain the lessons learned, and Focus your mental energy on something else. Job, hobby, outdoor hobbies like hiking, whatever floats your boat. But whatever you do, do not allow yourself to be idle in such a way that you have nothing to do but think about the past. Do not get bored.
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