Well that sucks!

AVGWarhawk · 05-11-10, 09:15 AM

Been there man. Move on because any trust that was there is now gone. Not a good way for you to live.

HunterICX · 05-11-10, 09:29 AM

That's awfull man,

wish you all the best and hopes for a positive outcome.

HunterICX

Lord_magerius · 05-11-10, 09:29 AM

I've been there man and I know nothing any of us say can make a difference to how crappy and messed up you're feeling right now. I can only offer my two cents and that would be to follow your head. If it's the second time it's happened then it will probably happen a third time if you continue. It's best just to end it now, go your separate ways for a little while before you get hurt anymore. But that's just me, you've got to make the decision, whatever you do I'm sure you'll make the choice that's right for you.

August · 05-11-10, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by AVGWarhawk

Been there man. Move on because any trust that was there is now gone. Not a good way for you to live.

Yep, better a clean break now than a messy one later. Besides your REAL true love of your life is out there somewhere. You don't want miss her because you were keeping your present relationship going on life support.

Oberon · 05-11-10, 11:14 AM

I won't say what to do, it's not really my place to, only you can decide how to proceed based on the situation.
Either which way, take care and stay strong mate.

CaptainHaplo · 05-11-10, 05:30 PM

Frei.... I won't advise you - but yet I will.. Let me ask some questions - and you think hard about your answers. No need to share them, just answer them for yourself and let those answers guide you.

How did you feel when you saw her kiss him?

Did you - or do you now - question her committment to you?

Are you willing to - based on the previous two answers, put yourself in the position with her to have to do that all over again in the future?

I've made my share of mistakes in relationships. I also know what my answers would be if it were my lady that did this. All I can do is wish you well brother, and should you need to talk - feel free to PM me.

Gato76 · 05-11-10, 05:56 PM

Freiwillige walk away from that woman,get rid of her,she did it once and she will do it again

nikimcbee · 05-11-10, 06:01 PM

since you're not married (no kids), I'd give her the pink slip and leave her stuff at the door.

Sorry to hear that, though.

gimpy117 · 05-16-10, 09:38 PM

I agree with the rest...dump here...if that's all it takes for her to cheat on you its a bad sign! (there are a lot more jerks with motorcycles out there)

05-11-10, 09:15 AM	#1
AVGWarhawk Lucky Jack Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: In a 1954 Buick. Posts: 28,293 Downloads: 90 Uploads: 0	Been there man. Move on because any trust that was there is now gone. Not a good way for you to live. __________________ “You're painfully alive in a drugged and dying culture.” ― Richard Yates, Revolutionary Road

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HunterICX Rear Admiral Join Date: May 2006 Location: Malaga, España Posts: 10,750 Downloads: 8 Uploads: 0	That's awfull man, wish you all the best and hopes for a positive outcome. HunterICX __________________

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CaptainHaplo Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4,404 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 0	Frei.... I won't advise you - but yet I will.. Let me ask some questions - and you think hard about your answers. No need to share them, just answer them for yourself and let those answers guide you. How did you feel when you saw her kiss him? Did you - or do you now - question her committment to you? Are you willing to - based on the previous two answers, put yourself in the position with her to have to do that all over again in the future? I've made my share of mistakes in relationships. I also know what my answers would be if it were my lady that did this. All I can do is wish you well brother, and should you need to talk - feel free to PM me. __________________ Good Hunting! Captain Haplo

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nikimcbee Fleet Admiral Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Patroling the Slot. Posts: 17,952 Downloads: 90 Uploads: 0	since you're not married (no kids), I'd give her the pink slip and leave her stuff at the door. Sorry to hear that, though. __________________

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gimpy117 Ocean Warrior Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Kalamazoo, MI Posts: 3,243 Downloads: 108 Uploads: 0	I agree with the rest...dump here...if that's all it takes for her to cheat on you its a bad sign! (there are a lot more jerks with motorcycles out there) __________________ Member of the Subsim Zombie Army

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Lord_magerius Seasoned Skipper Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Right by the hydrophone station Posts: 724 Downloads: 96 Uploads: 0	I've been there man and I know nothing any of us say can make a difference to how crappy and messed up you're feeling right now. I can only offer my two cents and that would be to follow your head. If it's the second time it's happened then it will probably happen a third time if you continue. It's best just to end it now, go your separate ways for a little while before you get hurt anymore. But that's just me, you've got to make the decision, whatever you do I'm sure you'll make the choice that's right for you.

05-11-10, 11:14 AM	#5
Oberon Lucky Jack Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 25,976 Downloads: 61 Uploads: 20	I won't say what to do, it's not really my place to, only you can decide how to proceed based on the situation. Either which way, take care and stay strong mate.

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Gato76 Planesman Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 192 Downloads: 82 Uploads: 0	Freiwillige walk away from that woman,get rid of her,she did it once and she will do it again