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Old 05-06-10, 11:37 PM   #1
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As a man of the cloth - I say as long as she is just being an idiot - let her. The less reaction she is given, the less she will get out of the efforts to disrupt - and she will tire of the game - or she will escalate her disturbances, giving the church reason to bar her from attending. She has to cross that line - and so far, she hasn't. The priest also may wish to take it up privately with her if he feels her current actions are too disruptive to be allowed, but not enough to bar her.
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But that wouldn't help me feeling annoyed. Maybe I should move farther next time but i like where I usually sit at.


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Because its a mass, the level of structure is a bit... cast in stone. Were it a protestant church, you would get a different reaction to be sure. I have seen this in a protestant church - to where the pastor organized a rather ... cruel response. During songs, early in the final chorus was cut out at specified times by everyone - except the disruptive person - who was caught singing in key and oblivious - to which everyone started pointing and laughing at them. About three songs into it, the person got pissed, stormed out, and from what I understand, never returned to that church.
That's a bit too cruel though he may deserve it.
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Old 05-07-10, 12:09 AM   #2
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@ Castout,
have you ever talked to her? (does she seem of able mind)?
Does she attend alone? Does anyone know her personally? I'm thinking maybe she does this elsewhere...
there may be underlying issues with this lady, perhaps a medical condition?
Inferiority complex...insecurities, people tend to gain attention for various reasons, those are just two.
Hard to comment on someone if you don't know their habits etc.
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i like where I usually sit at.
Good spot eh? I guess if it makes it hard for you to be a part of the service you may have to find another good vantage point. Have you attempted to communicate with the lady?
I guess what i'm pointing to is, when communicating with someone, you tend to get a feel for a person, perhaps even indirectly finding out why a person does certain things.
You could be very diplomatic and say to her: Gee you are really enjoying the service, aren't you? Or: Whenever you attend, you seem so enthusiastic and energetic with your participation.
These sorts of neutral yet probing questions can often lead to answers, without directly offending said person.
We don't want to offend, we just want to alleviate this problem, don't we?
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Throw the heaviest bible you can find at the back of her punkin.
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Good spot eh? I guess if it makes it hard for you to be a part of the service you may have to find another good vantage point. Have you attempted to communicate with the lady?
I guess what i'm pointing to is, when communicating with someone, you tend to get a feel for a person, perhaps even indirectly finding out why a person does certain things.
You could be very diplomatic and say to her: Gee you are really enjoying the service, aren't you? Or: Whenever you attend, you seem so enthusiastic and energetic with your participation.
These sorts of neutral yet probing questions can often lead to answers, without directly offending said person.
We don't want to offend, we just want to alleviate this problem, don't we?
I'm already disliking the lady so I would not be the best candidate to talk to her. what she is doing is disruptive and is an annoyance to other people and that's not communicating she's just being disrespectful towards the mass in general and the people who attend. Try that in a mosque and I can't imagine what would happen to her. But then again women are not allowed in Friday's prayer meeting as far as I know.




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Throw the heaviest bible you can find at the back of her punkin.
I wish she did that somewhere in Italy and the local gangster who attend would pull a gun to her forehead and say "What the fark you think you're doing lil sister?!" [Imagining Robert De Niro in his latest mafia themed comedy flick]

Fast and effective.
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The description is no concern to you?
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Old 05-07-10, 07:43 AM   #14
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Did she sing wrong and did not realise it, or couldn't do any better? then she should be helped.

Did she behave wrong intentionally, in order to provoke? Then it would be an opportunity to practice some Klingon diplomacy: kick her until she stops or leaves.
To me she seemed to sing the wrong key INTENTIONALLY. Everyone could hear her wrong key because she kept on for one or two seconds after everyone had stopped seemingly to me INTENTIONALLY.

She sits on the right most portion of the pew only a few pews from the altar. When everyone stands up she would stand up outside the pews . . .
When she sits down her feet would be outside the pews too.

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No you wouldn't if you knew . I wouldn't even for a million bucks.
The church is seeing weirder and weirder goers . . .thieves now operate during the mass too prying on left handbags while the communion is being handed out and people lining up to receive them.
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Old 05-07-10, 08:11 AM   #15
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You're in church...turn the other cheek or is that turn the other ear? I have seen a few in my time who truly feel they can belt out the hymnals at church but in all reality sound like a dying cow in the hot sun. Makes for good conversation later on in the day. Eventually they stop or go away. Heck, we had one woman who would dance around the church during the singing. She would flutter about looking like a gypsy with a scarf. She was basically ignored. She did have a history of abuse so we left it at that. Just because she does not seem mental she might have something in the past generating this crappy signing or want for attention.
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