The 'What did you get for Christmas' Thread

jumpy · 01-02-10, 02:24 AM

There isn't an appropriate smiley for this, perhaps it's just as well, 'cause no one would want to see it.

Sorry to lower the mood still further...

For christmas this year I got ran out on by my other half of the last 9 years.

So not only do I now have twice the financial responsibility to the place I'm living in now, but I have no job and no woman... and more importantly, (without her) no future.

She's not gone off with someone else... so I can't hate her. But she wants to be on her own with her clinical depression and serious mental illness.
She left one evening when I went to see my parents for a couple of hours... took the cats with her and a few clothes, and left me a note saying that she was sorry and would see me in a few days to explain.
A rational explanation was not forthcoming, neither was the sobbing phonecall I got about a week later begging me to meet her in town and how she didn't want it to be over and that she loves me and all of that stuff. She's had her parents round and taken all the rest of her stuff.
Then she's sent me messages saying how sorry she is for walking out etc etc... but she won't tell me where she is, plus her mum and dad have been messing about by telling me to leave her alone....FFS SHE CALLED ME!?

At least she told them to piss off and keep out of things after that.

Ain't it great when people you love and hold in the highest esteem, treat you like a ****?

So, apart from the large amounts of alcohol induced unconsciousness, I've had the worst christmas and new year in almost 34 years.

I'm also going to loose my net connection because British Telecom need to first cancel the phone account in her name before I can take it over with the same phone number, but my ISP will cancel my ADSL service, because the telephone line account is being changed. So until all of that is sorted I will continue to be absent for a further period of time.

And none of it matters, because I still love her with as much passion and empathy as I did when we first met.

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01-02-10, 02:24 AM	#27
jumpy Admiral Join Date: May 2003 Location: Midlands, UK Posts: 2,139 Downloads: 22 Uploads: 0	bah humbug There isn't an appropriate smiley for this, perhaps it's just as well, 'cause no one would want to see it. Sorry to lower the mood still further... For christmas this year I got ran out on by my other half of the last 9 years. So not only do I now have twice the financial responsibility to the place I'm living in now, but I have no job and no woman... and more importantly, (without her) no future. She's not gone off with someone else... so I can't hate her. But she wants to be on her own with her clinical depression and serious mental illness. She left one evening when I went to see my parents for a couple of hours... took the cats with her and a few clothes, and left me a note saying that she was sorry and would see me in a few days to explain. A rational explanation was not forthcoming, neither was the sobbing phonecall I got about a week later begging me to meet her in town and how she didn't want it to be over and that she loves me and all of that stuff. She's had her parents round and taken all the rest of her stuff. Then she's sent me messages saying how sorry she is for walking out etc etc... but she won't tell me where she is, plus her mum and dad have been messing about by telling me to leave her alone....FFS SHE CALLED ME!? At least she told them to piss off and keep out of things after that. Ain't it great when people you love and hold in the highest esteem, treat you like a ***? So, apart from the large amounts of alcohol induced unconsciousness, I've had the worst christmas and new year in almost 34 years. I'm also going to loose my net connection because British Telecom need to first cancel the phone account in her name before I can take it over with the same phone number, but my ISP will cancel my ADSL service, because the telephone line account is being changed. So until all of that is sorted I will continue to be absent for a further period of time. And none of it matters, because I still love her with as much passion and empathy as I did when we first met. edit: __________________ when you’ve been so long in the desert, any water, no matter how brackish, looks like life Last edited by jumpy; 01-02-10 at 02:47 AM.*