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Old 12-15-09, 02:26 PM   #1
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My thoughts are with you too.

You won't probably believe me but I experienced something similar.

Me too I was 5 years old when I had my first pet (a cat) her name was Charlotte, she was very affectionate with me. when she was almost 18 she started to feel sharp pain and started to scream, but we were on friday night, there was very little I could do.

Next day I took her to the vet (naively believing they could do something), the veterinarian told me that she had about 12-24 hours left to live, I was completly shocked. It was the first time in my adult life that I really weep.

Charlotte 1985-2003 ...I will always remember...

I have no desire to give you advice, all I can do is to listen to everything you're gonna write here.


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Old 12-15-09, 02:31 PM   #2
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I have no desire to give you advice, all I can do is to listen to everything you're gonna write here.
And for this, I thank you with all my heart. Advice don't bring the dead back. What I need is a place to write down some of my sorrow until I find a good rl person to do it with.
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Old 12-15-09, 02:53 PM   #3
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What I need is a place to write down some of my sorrow until I find a good rl person to do it with.
You can also PM me, don't worry.
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Old 12-15-09, 03:15 PM   #4
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Bummer Biggles.
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Old 12-15-09, 03:16 PM   #5
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This is the most painful experience I've had in a very long time. I've cried non-stop for over an hour now. I just can't stand this. I'm sure I get over it, but right now I feel nothing but despair. I really miss my two cats.
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Old 12-15-09, 04:13 PM   #6
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Hang in there. Such a loss is always very painful (I've lost my father 6 months ago). It does take time to get over it but eventually the pain will ease off.
Take care and my sincere condolences.
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Old 12-15-09, 04:59 PM   #7
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That's the hardest lesson in life, and I think harder nowadays as we insulate ourselves from it better. Everything living dies and you can't do anything about it but cope and keep good memories. But, life also goes on, and you'll live through it as I have too many times.

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