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Old 10-16-09, 07:52 AM   #1
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The death of a family doesn't seem to me to be fodder for jokes...
who was joking??
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Old 10-16-09, 08:12 AM   #2
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who was joking??
I'm guessing the post was deleted.

What an awful way to go. I can't even begin to imagine...
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Old 10-16-09, 12:15 PM   #3
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Right... so they decided to poke their pole around a power line and got zapped? I should feel bad for them because...?
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Old 10-16-09, 03:03 PM   #4
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Right... so they decided to poke their pole around a power line and got zapped? I should feel bad for them because...?
Because you're a human being and not some callous jerk?
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Old 10-16-09, 06:20 PM   #5
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Because you're a human being and not some callous jerk?
So, I'm a jerk because I dont feel bad for someone who clearly didnt have a clue that poking around a power line with a metal antenna could be dangerous? Fine, jerk I am then.
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Old 10-16-09, 11:19 PM   #6
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So, I'm a jerk because I dont feel bad for someone who clearly didnt have a clue that poking around a power line with a metal antenna could be dangerous? Fine, jerk I am then.
Sorry I had thought better of you.
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Old 10-18-09, 11:51 AM   #7
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So, I'm a jerk because I dont feel bad for someone who clearly didnt have a clue that poking around a power line with a metal antenna could be dangerous? Fine, jerk I am then.
This this.
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Old 10-18-09, 12:29 PM   #8
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People also have to realize that humour is often a side effect of grief.

http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/G...r_in_Loss.html

Humour is also a tool that helps people cope with bad situations in which they have little control.

Although I am sure it is common in other countries, it is especially common in America. We joke about pretty much everything.

We joked when the Challenger exploded (What does NASA stand for: Need Another Seven Astronauts).

We joked about the 911 attacks (
What's Al Qaida's favorite football team? The New York Jets)

We joked about Hurricane Katrina (
I heard from my brother who has re opened his bar in the French Quarter, he said business was a little quiet but was picking up now that some of his regulars have been drifting back in.)

Laughing at these types of jokes does not mean that the situation was not horrible. We joke about them because they are horrible terrible events. Because these events invoke such powerful emotions, we turn to irreverent "gallows" humour. I experienced this when I was in the military and as an EMT. Frankly if we did not laugh, we could not handle the stress.

It may sound flippant, but if we did not care, we would not joke about it.

Humour is always offensive to someone or something. That is the nature of humour.

And it is most important that just because I don't think something is funny, does not mean it is not funny to someone else.


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Old 10-18-09, 01:04 PM   #9
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So, I'm a jerk because I dont feel bad for someone who clearly didnt have a clue that poking around a power line with a metal antenna could be dangerous? Fine, jerk I am then.


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This this.
"Authorities have identified the victims as 55-year-old Melville Braham, 49-year-old Ana Braham and 15-year-old Anthony Braham."

Damn, you are some really tough guys. Not.
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Old 10-17-09, 06:51 AM   #10
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Right... so they decided to poke their pole around a power line and got zapped? I should feel bad for them because...?
This.
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Old 10-16-09, 12:16 PM   #11
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That's awfull. On a side note, if I ever die, please don't use my DRIVER's License photo on the evening news!
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Old 10-16-09, 12:23 PM   #12
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@ SteamWake and all other SS members...


I did not post #2. I don't and have never used the term "Dude" on this or any other website. Ever.

My password has been compromised.
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Old 10-16-09, 12:26 PM   #13
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@ SteamWake and all other SS members...


I did not post #2. I don't and have never used the term "Dude" on this or any other website. Ever.

My password has been compromised.
Check the last edited by on your post
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Old 10-16-09, 01:50 PM   #14
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Right... so they decided to poke their pole around a power line and got zapped? I should feel bad for them because...?
I agree. As much as I feel bad for the surviving members of the family, there is always a price for stupidity. Sometimes it is your own life...
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After watching the news video, I don't feel as bad for them. They were putting it up at 8:30 at night. If they had done it in the day time, this probably would not of happened.
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