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Old 12-15-09, 11:48 AM   #1
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Default Sune och Zeke.

This is Sune.

And this is Zeke.

They're brothers, and lived with us for the last 14 years. 14 years is a long time. 14 years ago from now was 1995. I had just turned 5 years old. These two, by that time kittens, were taken into our house. At first they were terrified.

Now, 14 years later, I'm 19. The cats, are now 14 years old. I've always had them by my side in the life that I can remember. 14 years ago I moved to my current home in Stockholm, and away from Göteborg. I don't remember much from the time before 1995.

These two has been with me and my family throughout all these years. Never been sick, never ran away. Sure, they did threw up sometimes, but overall, they were the best cats you could possibly imagine. Sune, while somewhat scared towards strangers (and vacuum cleaners) was loyal to us all, and every morning for the last 10 years, he's been heading straight for my mothers lap after we'd let him in. Zeke, has many lovers, in that that anyone who came across this cat fell for him. Extremely calm and kind towards strangers and friends alike, Zeke was the most wonderful cat I've ever came across. He rarely spoke, but purred instead, and during my years of deep depression he almost instinctively came to my lap to comfort me. He has done the same for my father.

Tonight, they will be taken to the vet. They're old, and getting senile, urinating all over the place. I hate every inch of myself, but I have no objection. Their time has come. I will not join my father to the vet. That is a trip I could never bare.

My parents say we will get a new cat. They're not lying. I'm fine with that, I have no objections, and I look forward to have a new little furball in the house.

But nothing, nothing can take away the fact that I tonight say goodbye to the best cats you could possibly imagine. I will never forget them, and can never thank them enough for being part of the earliest days of my life.

Tack, Sune och Zeke.

Jag älskar er.

//Olle Rönn.
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Old 12-15-09, 11:54 AM   #2
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Its a very hard thing to bring yourself to do.

But you have to ask the question 'do these animals have a quality of life?' if the answer is no then you owe it to them to do the right thing.

I just put down a beloved pet this july. We had had her for nearly 18 years. It still brings a tear to my eye.

Be strong.
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Old 12-15-09, 11:58 AM   #3
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I feel your pain. Give them one last kitty treat and a good last hug. Sorry to hear about your loss.
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Old 12-15-09, 12:03 PM   #4
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My thoughts are with you Biggles. They've been there for you for 14 years, now you have to be there for them. Better to let them slip away softly than go down piece by piece. Give them a hug from me, even though I never knew them, they are my friends, and so are you.
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Jeg elsker min hund. Jeg helt forstår.

Farvel Sune og Zeke.
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Old 12-15-09, 12:34 PM   #6
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Sorry for your loss, losing a pet (especially a longtime pet) is always hard.

A few years ago I picked out a cat from the pound, and a few days later (on Christmas eve no less) it died of leukemia. Only had him a week or so, but I still had a tough time with it. I can't imagine how it must feel to put down what by now must feel like two members of you family.
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Old 12-15-09, 01:25 PM   #7
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My condolences. Just remember that they had good lives, and were part of a loving family.
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Old 12-15-09, 02:18 PM   #8
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Thank you all.

It is over now. They are no longer with us. And I just couldn't stop the tears. I cried in the arms of my father for the first time in a very very long time. I'm still crying, this is just too big for my mind to comprehend right now.
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My thoughts are with you too.

You won't probably believe me but I experienced something similar.

Me too I was 5 years old when I had my first pet (a cat) her name was Charlotte, she was very affectionate with me. when she was almost 18 she started to feel sharp pain and started to scream, but we were on friday night, there was very little I could do.

Next day I took her to the vet (naively believing they could do something), the veterinarian told me that she had about 12-24 hours left to live, I was completly shocked. It was the first time in my adult life that I really weep.

Charlotte 1985-2003 ...I will always remember...

I have no desire to give you advice, all I can do is to listen to everything you're gonna write here.


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Old 12-15-09, 02:31 PM   #10
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I have no desire to give you advice, all I can do is to listen to everything you're gonna write here.
And for this, I thank you with all my heart. Advice don't bring the dead back. What I need is a place to write down some of my sorrow until I find a good rl person to do it with.
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Old 12-15-09, 02:53 PM   #11
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What I need is a place to write down some of my sorrow until I find a good rl person to do it with.
You can also PM me, don't worry.
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Old 12-15-09, 03:15 PM   #12
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Bummer Biggles.
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Old 12-15-09, 03:16 PM   #13
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This is the most painful experience I've had in a very long time. I've cried non-stop for over an hour now. I just can't stand this. I'm sure I get over it, but right now I feel nothing but despair. I really miss my two cats.
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Old 12-15-09, 04:13 PM   #14
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Hang in there. Such a loss is always very painful (I've lost my father 6 months ago). It does take time to get over it but eventually the pain will ease off.
Take care and my sincere condolences.
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Old 12-15-09, 04:59 PM   #15
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That's the hardest lesson in life, and I think harder nowadays as we insulate ourselves from it better. Everything living dies and you can't do anything about it but cope and keep good memories. But, life also goes on, and you'll live through it as I have too many times.

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