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Old 06-25-11, 02:45 PM   #1
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I have nothing to say except she was lucky lucky lucky to have you as a master.
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Old 06-25-11, 03:03 PM   #2
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I loath losing pets. It seems to hurt more than losing people you know for me. I really feel your pain, take care.
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Old 06-25-11, 03:04 PM   #3
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Very sad. The only thing to do is love them back as much as they love you.
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Old 06-25-11, 03:44 PM   #4
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It's tough, I tried to save my dog, small Yorkie oversize heart and her lungs filled with fluid. The meds made her better, but she got worse and even with more meds she died. I regret I didn't put her down and she suffered more for a week, so it's a hard decision that you made correctly.
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Old 06-25-11, 05:05 PM   #5
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You are powerless in such situations and you have given everything possible , respect .
10 years ago I lost my dog and it still hurts .

My sympathies AVG and family .

RIP Moo
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Old 06-25-11, 09:04 PM   #6
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It's tough, I tried to save my dog, small Yorkie oversize heart and her lungs filled with fluid. The meds made her better, but she got worse and even with more meds she died. I regret I didn't put her down and she suffered more for a week, so it's a hard decision that you made correctly.

It is a very hard decision. My wife stated 9 weeks ago, "Are we doing this for her or we doing this for us?" Meaning at the time she was diagosed with mast cells gone wild was she in any pain at that time and are we hanging on for us. At that time she was oxgenating very well. Pink gums and tongue. Still had spunk in her step. The predisone worked miracles. The cough stopped. Her allergy that made her lick her feet constantly was completely eliminated. She was finally comforable from the incessent licking of her feet. In hindsight it was a good decision to use the pills and provide her 6 weeks of good times and good eats. At 9 weeks in a matter of 2 days she had grown a mast cell in her mouth. Very large. Her breathing labored. It was every indication that life for her was getting unpleasant. The decision was easy at that point. Either way we has humans want to hang on. When she went limp in my arms after administering the desired amount I knew she was finally free. I felt much relief but still very down and miss her much.
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Old 06-27-11, 11:18 AM   #7
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It will be one of the hardest days of your life. My dog was 12 when we put her down...i was 15 then. I'm 20 now and i still get a little sad when thinking about my dog sandy.

but, you'll know shes in a better place.
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Old 06-27-11, 12:04 PM   #8
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It will be one of the hardest days of your life.
I don't know if that was intended for me (seeing it's in future tense), but if it was: believe me, I have lived it already. I stopped counting when I ran out of fingers to count with.
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Old 06-27-11, 04:16 PM   #9
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I don't know if that was intended for me (seeing it's in future tense), but if it was: believe me, I have lived it already. I stopped counting when I ran out of fingers to count with.
it's for anybody who's ever lost a pet. they may be your property, but sometimes it feels like they own your heart
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Old 07-06-11, 08:11 AM   #10
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Sad news, but the correct decision. You could rush out and get a puppy, but nothing can replace Moo, and nor should it - but in time there may be space for another. Cherish your family memories together to help you all.

I have been suffering with a touch of hayfever this week, but not today, so I have no excuse. Hurry up in that toilet, Jim!

Edit - I've just remembered that my little girl (nearly 3) says 'the onion's poking me in the eye' when she's in the kitchen and we're chopping onions. This thread has more pokes than Facebook.
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Old 06-25-11, 12:13 PM   #11
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This was a heartwrenching read. My thoughts with you and your loved ones.
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Old 06-25-11, 01:46 PM   #12
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Who's been chopping onions in GT

My sympathies, AVG, you are doing the right thing
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Old 06-25-11, 02:18 PM   #13
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Thanks all. Today at 1115 our Moo was put to rest. Her struggles to breath and just get up are over. Quick, painless and dignified. She was faithful to the end. It was the one best thing we could have done for our family member in need.

She was dropped at the funeral home for cremation. We selected a nice urn. She can be picked up tomorrow. My girls did not want to leave Moo behind if we ever sell this house.

We carry on.....
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Old 06-25-11, 02:31 PM   #14
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Give them two girls a friendly cuddle from old Uncle Buna Chris
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Old 07-05-11, 05:11 PM   #15
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I feel your pain AVG. Sorry to hear about your loss. It sure is a tough desicion to make, especially when that time arrives.
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