Same-sex marriage in Sweden/Gays in military

[Aramike]

Originally Posted by Max2147

I just can't wrap my head around how gay marriage somehow weakens the institution of marriage.

Let's face it, marriage isn't in great shape right now. Our divorce rate is sky-high, and domestic violence is all too common. I don't see how allowing truly loving couples to marry, even if they're the same gender, somehow weakens an institution that's supposed to be about love. There are a lot of heterosexual marriages out there that do a lot more harm to the institution than a loving homosexual marriage ever will.

To me the right of marriage is the right to marry the person you love, and right now gays/lesbians are being denied that right.

All that said, I see civil unions as an acceptable alternative. For that matter, I think all marriages should be seen as civil unions in the eyes of the law. Give the term "marriage" back to the religious institutions, where it belongs.

Part of an institution is the traditions surrounding it. Remove the traditions and you're altering the very meaning of the term.

[porphy]

Originally Posted by Aramike

Part of an institution is the traditions surrounding it. Remove the traditions and you're altering the very meaning of the term.

True, but the fact that you in general alter the meaning of the term by removing or changing traditions connected to it can't really in itself be a good reason against some proposed change of institutional tradition.