"Realistic"/immersive game as commander - SH5 good platform?

[glerin]

Hello,

I was out of the SH series (or subsiming in general) for a few years.
Last time i played little modded SH3 and vanila SH4.

I know that for many people is important mainly the "realism" of attack - manual targeting, authentic TDC etc.
I no longer have the need for that. I would like to get as close as possible to the role of submarine captain.

1. I want to feel like I'm not alone on the submarine. So I want to make the most of the ship's crew. Including targeting, deck gun etc.
2. immersive experience....graphic, sound effects, defects, dangerous AI, "realistic" damage model.
3. some crew management to have a relationship with them

So I just want to play as a captain. Give orders, make decisions, experience hard times.
Is SH5(TWOS) good platform for this? I'm thinking about SH5 because it's the latest SH game.
Or there is some other option?

Thanks for any advice. And sorry for my english.
Jan