Trio Of Mods Help Losing My Mind Grrrrrrrrrr

[Defiance]

Hiya's,

Quick background scenario

Up until new gpu i stayed away from high vis fx like FX Update and anything overly smoking

So i had mods like ......... Old Style Explosions V1.1, Enhanced funnel smoke

Now i can whack settings up and enjoy the full-on explosions and smoking merchants going under

But i cannot for the life of me get one of my all time favourite mods to work without me crashing

The mod is
3D_Deck_Splash_FX_v1_0_0_byTheBeast or its variant
3D_Deck_Splash_FX_v1_0_0_KZS_Compat_byTheBeast

I have so far been phaffing with so many mods which either got updated since i was awol or have bveen surpassed

DynEnv has sobers 3d spray in, so all's good there
Newui's has KZS wet look mod
FX Update (0022) seems to have vals for the kzs wet look

I would love to keep the FX Update now that i can use it

I have tried removing the vals from Newui's and removing the perlon part

Any ideas ? i have tried about every config to get the three mods to work together, mod list below, stable so far ..........

Accurate German Flags
DynEnv v2.9 - 1. Main Mod
DynEnv v2.9 - 4.a Camera Filters - Realistic Colors
DynEnv v2.9 - 5.d Ambient Settings - Brighter Nights
DynEnv v2.9 - 8.b Wave Mechanics - Gale
DynEnv v2.9 - 10.I Seafloor (high resolution)
DynEnv v2.9 - 11.a.I Sea Plants - Atlantic Kelp Forests (high resolution)
SteelViking's Interior Mod V1.2
SteelViking's Interior Mod V1.2.2 Patch
sobers best ever fog V27 SH5 (or i try v29 and v30)
Small_trees_SH5_V1
sobers more trees SH5
SH5_7A_Conning_Fix
Fix clock rear torpedo room VIIA
Fuel Gauge WoGaDi_SteelViking's Interior
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_byTheBeast
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1
#Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1_HotFix
Equipment_Upgrades_Fix_v1_4_Patch_1 (available by date) V9 by sober
MightyFine Crew Mod 1.2.1 Alt w beards
Speech fixes and additions (german version)
FX_Update_0_0_22_ByTheDarkWraith
FX_Update_0_0_22_Torpedoes (modified for torpedoes failure patches)
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_ByTheDarkWraith
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_New_radio_messages_German
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_No_Snorkel_Exhaust_Smoke
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_RadCapTools_0_2_alpha
NewUIs_TDC_7_5_0_Das_Boot_Crew_Mod_by_Illyustrator
TDW_No_contact_shapes_or_colors_dashed_contact_lin e_1_1_0
IRAI_0_0_41_ByTheDarkWraith
TDW_Ship_Inertia_1_1_0
IRAI_0_0_41_Inertia_Damage
Large Optics for TDW UI
Large Optics for TDW UI 16 by 9
Submarine's .sim&cfg (modified for engine ratio + independent control patches).7z
Real U-Boat Performance - Type VII v1.4
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 1_07.06.2013
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 2_07.06.2013
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 3_24.06.2013
Sjizzle's - Charts for NewUIs part 4_20.07.2013
Sjizzle's - MarineQuadrat Charts for NewUIs v. 0.00.2
R.E.M_by_Xrundel_TheBeast_1.2
Cerberus62 Corrected Depth Charge Projector 1.0
OPEN HORIZONS II v2.5
OH II v2.5 Grid Request fix Patch SH5
R.S.D. - Reworked Submarine Damage v5.7 by vdr1981_Main mod
R.S.D. & R.E.M. - GHG Hydrophone add-on (no hyd on surface)
R.S.D. v5.7 - German Patch
TDC Graphics by Naights v1.0
Trevally Harbour & Kiel Canal Pilot v3.1
sobers no footstep sound mod SH5 V2
EQuaTool 01.01 by AvM - Large Style
gap - HD 1 deg Scope Bearing v 1.0
Moon_light_mod V6 SH5
Reboot's Water Drips 1.1
Reworked U-boat Guns (incomplete version)
Silent Seagulls
Grossdeutscher Rundfunk
WHF-FUC_We Have Flooding-Flooding Under Control_Fix
Popular German Music From The 30s
Messervy_s_gramophone_pack1
sobers No bullet trasers SH5
sobers NO water drops V1
MadMaxs_SH5_Subdiesel (mono) v2
gap - destructible searchlights test 1
AilBubbles 1.0 Micro
AilDeckwave 1.0
Radio Paris French Music Full Version 1.2
NOZAURIO'S SKIN (U-96 BLACK) v-1.1.0
Shadow Improvement Mod

Cheers

EDIT : Checked through some stable meps, it's just FX Update that seems to be causing my crashing, i have several instances of 3d deck spray and newui's working fine in tests from baltic operations up until the mission after eastern british coast