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Originally Posted by Red October1984

I would say that if I had some sort of flaw. It would be my defensiveness or my shyness. Every once in a while, (just did this last week) I will set something down, forget about it, and accuse somebody of stealing it....and then realizing it's where I put it. I'm just so used to people taking my stuff and hiding it that it's my first reaction.

That sounds more like a lack of confidence.If people are taking your things and hiding them most likely they are doing it because of how you react to it.You really do not want to be that person because people will do that to you everywhere not just in school.

You say that you like the Russian girls at your school right? Well reacting to people teasing you wont make any girls particularly interested in you.Especially not a Russian or Ukrainian girl these people are pretty tough and minor things do not bother them so they will not consider a dude that gets mad when people hide his stuff particularly interesting.

And don't get to upset about being socially awkward in high school.Of course you should work on behaviors that attract unwanted attention.

You cant possibly do worse than me.I did not get picked on and no one hid my stuff from me not beyond the usual antics of friends.However I was pretty dense in the body language department and totally missed out on ques from several girls that they where interested in me.What can I say I am no Wilt Chamberlain.