All Men have to read this!

[Wolfehunter]

Man oh Man I can't believe this world. I'm not religious but man this is totally wrong. What about mans honour jezz.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/7284134.stm

I feel sorry for those italian men. Bad times boys.

[Venatore]

gee this is funny ruling in the court, this would have to go both ways [female & males]; or what if you are a trans-sexual ?

[Wolfehunter]

If its about womens honour what about mens honour?

This whole thing stinks.
I feel these new marriage conditions destroys family values. I don't believe in religion but I do believe in a greater good between people. We should set examples to better ourselves and for our young. If people don't want to honourable to the ideal of a family they shouldn't get married. Because if you have children they are the ones who suffer in the end.

Anyhow thats my point to it.

[AVGWarhawk]

Wolfehunter,

It is all in who you pick to marry and how you handle that marriage. If your girl is promiscuous around the neighborhood or has a very sorted past, best keep on looking. Leopards do not change their color. Also, you could have the most faithful wife in the world but lack of attention sexually or otherwise is brew for trouble. Basically, you better do it for her or somebody will take care of it. This is not to say the law here is ok, but let's look at the flip side for the moment. Anyway, if she goes off and does the deed, let her new boyfriend know the bills and the headache is a package deal. You do not need her anyway. Hopefully there are no children involved. She has to live with it if there are. And another thing, all the sneaking around and catching a quicky ain't so fun anymore when you are found out. The thrill of the hunt, the score, gets boring....she will go off and do it again to that poor sap also. It is a game, once the game is completed, time to start another. I have seen it plenty and know enough to say that romp in sheets for the thrill is not worth it.

[Kapitan_Phillips]

Whilst I feel this is utter bull**** on a moral level, I dont have the cause to enthusiastically support the need to lie for men either.

Welcome to feminism.

[Blacklight]

Yeesh ! Us men lie and we end up with a high heel up our behinds.

[Wolfehunter]

Originally Posted by AVGWarhawk

Wolfehunter,

It is all in who you pick to marry and how you handle that marriage. If your girl is promiscuous around the neighborhood or has a very sorted past, best keep on looking. Leopards do not change their color. Also, you could have the most faithful wife in the world but lack of attention sexually or otherwise is brew for trouble. Basically, you better do it for her or somebody will take care of it. This is not to say the law here is ok, but let's look at the flip side for the moment. Anyway, if she goes off and does the deed, let her new boyfriend know the bills and the headache is a package deal. You do not need her anyway. Hopefully there are no children involved. She has to live with it if there are. And another thing, all the sneaking around and catching a quicky ain't so fun anymore when you are found out. The thrill of the hunt, the score, gets boring....she will go off and do it again to that poor sap also. It is a game, once the game is completed, time to start another. I have seen it plenty and know enough to say that romp in sheets for the thrill is not worth it.

Your right not all women are like this. But is still set poor standards. Also if society accepts this to be the norm in time traditional honourable values are all but a memory. We become the minority aka black sheep. I'm not bashing women in general, there are men out there who are just as bad. AVGWK its about principles. If you want to have fun stay single. Its not a game, its a responsibility between partners and more.

[AVGWarhawk]

I agree, it is about principles, responsibilities and honoring the vow you have taken...better or worse. I for one, if done such an act, would look guilty as a kid caught with his hand in a cookie jar. I know you said you are not a religious man but some proverbs ring true, 'Do unto others as you would have done unto you.' I trust my wife implicitly and conduct myself in a manner that she too would trust me implicitly. Trust is the strongest foundation one could ask for in any relationship. If your soon to be is not trustworthy, might want to stand back and think before diving in.

Its not a game, its a responsibility between partners and more

You missed the point, "the game" is the hunt and the score, the hiding and stealing time together with another other than your betrothed. That is the game. Both men and women play this game. Is it about love and passion? Nope. It is about getting away with it and the thrill of it all. More often then not, they are predisposed to this activity. Doing this and living this way is like riding the new rollercoaster for the first time, after a few turns around the track, time for a new ride and the new excitement. I know several women like this. My sister-in-law for example. She was so bad with my brother, she rung up over $100,000.00 in credit card bills and a new car to her, lets face it, screw doll. She was taking money out of my brother company to get laid. My brother could not figure out way at the end of every month, the books just show breaking even. Well, he found out! The game was over, screw doll moved away, sister-in-law lives in shame......and alone now. That is the game. She is busy now starting another game but with out the key to the checkbook. She has been playing the game long before my brother showed up and married her. He was warned in the beginning but was to star struck to care.

Your right not all women are like this. But is still set poor standards.

Agreed 100%

[Platapus]

Both my lady and I know many people who abide by this "logic" that it is ok to cheat and lie about it. We just shake our heads ruefully. I guess we are of a different time.

In this day and age, when it is not socially required to be married why do people get married and then cheat? Don't get married but have multiple girl/boy friends if that is what you wish.

I seldom like to push my moral values on others and everyone will live their lives the way they wish. But to us:

Cheating on your spouse or committed domestic partner is wrong
Lying about cheating on your spouse or committed domestic partner is wrong

To us, there as just some things in life that are that simple.

[Letum]

Haha! It's only a few days ago that Ital banned scratching your balls in public. (Seriously!)

What on earth is going on other there?

[Sailor Steve]

...entitled to lie about it to protect their honour...

Reputations, maybe; adulterers have no honour to begin with.

[Jimbuna]

Originally Posted by Letum

Haha! It's only a few days ago that Ital banned scratching your balls in public. (Seriously!)

What on earth is going on other there?

Since when did they have balls :p

[antikristuseke]

What the hell, how do people come up with this crap?

[Letum]

Originally Posted by jimbuna

Since when did they have balls :p

The Italians?
Oh, they chack for that; Testiculos habet et bene pendentes

[Jimbuna]

Originally Posted by Letum

The Italians?
Oh, they chack for that; Testiculos habet et bene pendentes

ROFLMAO