A real life story-my elder sister saved the life of her boyfriend

[mapuc]

Had to remove the story it was not for this forum.

Markus

[Betonov]

Someone's up for a fancy vacation somehwere south


Good job and thanks for the heads up about blood on the stool

[mapuc]

Originally Posted by Betonov

Someone's up for a fancy vacation somehwere south


Good job and thanks for the heads up about blood on the stool

Have removed it-your right it is not sutable for this forum

Markus

[Betonov]

How come.

Your sister saved the life of her boyfrend by recognising there was blood in the stool and he went to the doctor and had cancer removed.

[Herr-Berbunch]

I missed it but if it's a sound warning of someone's health issues then I don't see a problem with it, and I can't see Neal or any of the moderating team having one either. Even if one person reads it and notices something different then it's got to be worth posting.

[mapuc]

Originally Posted by Herr-Berbunch

I missed it but if it's a sound warning of someone's health issues then I don't see a problem with it, and I can't see Neal or any of the moderating team having one either. Even if one person reads it and notices something different then it's got to be worth posting.

Have reposted it.

Markus

[mapuc]

Originally Posted by Betonov

How come.

Your sister saved the life of her boyfrend by recognising there was blood in the stool and he went to the doctor and had cancer removed.

your first post, made me wonder if the stoy was unfitted for this forum or if it was to long ? I want to tell the story as my sister told it to me.

Or did I somehow misunderstood what you meant ?

Markus

[mapuc]

Here are the the whole story I removed before(if not suitable for GT please remove)

Two notice before I start writing this story

I'm very bad at writing dialogs-If I could I would have written books


The story happens about 2009.


Instead I'll make my sister speak, meaning every word inside the quotes are her speaking and words inside (are my words) and what I can remember

(Remember-it is my sister speaking) and it can for some be disgusting to read

Me and my boyfriend had been together for some month, mostly we had been at my place or in town. I had been at his place now and then and this was the first time I had to be at his place a whole afternoon, he needed help with his curtain(my elder sister is pro when it comes to curtains) after I was finished, I had to leave, not for home though, had to do some shopping, before I left my boyfriends home, I had to visit the bathroom.


I didn't finish my doings I left the bathroom went strait to the living room where he and his friend was sitting and watching Tour De France(it is big in Denmark-like Super Bowl)


Which of you two was the last person at the toilet ? No response


Ahoy I asked you a question-which one of you two was the last visiting the toilet.


My boyfriends friend looked at me, saying why, have one of us forgot to flush the toilet ?

Was it you then ? I asked him and my boyfriends friend, no haven't visit N.N's toilet. Since I came some hours ago.


I turned my attention to my boyfriend-N.N, have you been on the toilet ?


N.N looked at my saying:


Yes and I'm so sorry if I forgot to flushed the toilet.


(my sister)-N.N, I want you to take your phone and call your doctor and get an appointment ASAP
My boyfriend and his friend looked at me and smiled. And my boyfriends friend said


Women they are sometimes funny.


My boyfriend then said- Why should I call my doctor and get an appointment ASAP-I feel alright
(my sister) Have you looked into the toilet ? I guess you had to drop some "dirt" last time you where there.


My boyfriend looked at me, and said, OK I forgot to use the toilet brush sorry


(my sister) that's not the problem, I think you should go and lift the toilet seat and take a look.


The boyfriend said, tell me then what is the problem.


(my sister) OK, it is a lot of blood in the toilet.


N.N turned white when I said those words, N.N take you phone and call your doctor.
He was shaking all over when he tried to phone his doctor.


(My sister) Let me dial the number for you, but you have to speak to the doctor for your self

End of my sister story


It turned out that my elder sisters boyfriend had cancer in his whole stomach-they had to remover most of his colon and small intestine. Today he has a stomi.


The doctor said to him, if he had waited 2-3 month it would have been to late. And the doctor also said, 99 % of us is doing it wrong when we visit the toilet- after we have dropped some "dirt" the doctor also said there are 2-4 types of cancer in the stomach who doesn't give pain until it is to late-the only sign is blood in and around the "dirt" this is the first sign.


I tried to remember as much as I could and I could have put some extra words into the text, which isn't my elder sister words

Markus

[Jimbuna]

The original post looks fine.

[Betonov]

Right, I think you may have understood my post as sarcasm

No, I actually sincerely thanked you for pointing out this story because myself had a few instances when there was blood when I wipped my behind after the deed.
I always brushed it of as maybe delicate skin in that area or badly digested food and I don't have it anymore since I started being a lot more active and living healthier.

Still it's a good heads up to look for these things. Could he a summer rash, could be cancer

[Commander Wallace]

Originally Posted by mapuc

Had to remove the story it was not for this forum.

Markus

Thanks for posting it. It is a warning that if you see differences, have it checked by a qualified physician. Even if you think it's relatively minor. You know yourselves better than anyone.


Herr-Berbunch makes a good point as well.

Thanks for the information.