Obama - Credit where credit is due...

SteamWake · 04-16-10, 12:23 PM

As most of you know I dont care for Obama's policys in general but this time he got it right

Quote:

President Obama mandated Thursday that nearly all hospitals extend visitation rights to the partners of gay men and lesbians and respect patients' choices about who may make critical health-care decisions for them, perhaps the most significant step so far in his efforts to expand the rights of gay Americans.

Bet that supprises some of you

and no I'm not gay but have friends and family whom are.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...041505502.html

Sailor Steve · 04-16-10, 12:24 PM

Agreed.

CaptainHaplo · 04-16-10, 12:34 PM

I disagree - if you want to give someone the authority for such decisions - get a power of attorney. As for the visitation - I don't have an issue. But this should apply to any unmarried couple as far as both authority - get the legal documents in order - and visitation.

Like so much else - this is just something that discriminates againsts straight couples who do not marry - just like the health care bill discriminated by including a tax on white women, and the FDA discriminated in banning all but one brand of "flavored" cigarrettes (Guess which one they kept - give you some hints - its the most popular brand of its type among a certain ethnic group, starts with a K, ends with L - and has OO in the middle...)

Cater to the special little groups to make em all happy again. Doesn't matter that when it comes to health care decisions there was a mechanism in place. Doesn't matter that any member of a couple - regardless of sexuality - should be allowed to see their "other half". As long as the "special" people get their goodies - who cares if everyone else is left in the cold.

frau kaleun · 04-16-10, 12:42 PM

Straight couples have the option of marrying and can choose not to. If they choose to marry, it will be recognized everywhere as will all the rights and privileges that come with it.

Gay and lesbian couples do not have the same option unless they live in one of the few states that will recognize such a union, and even then most of the remaining states will not.

So it's not a fair playing field to begin with. It's only discrimination against gay and lesbian couples in this matter that makes a special mandate necessary at all.

Let any couple who wants to enter into a legal union do so, and give them all the rights and privileges that come with it. Require the power-of-attorney stuff from any couple that chooses not to marry even though any couple can. Then there's no discrimination either way and no need for mandate to make up for it.

GoldenRivet · 04-16-10, 12:46 PM

agreed, i read that article this morning.

CaptainHaplo · 04-16-10, 12:55 PM

If we really wanted to get into it - its not the government's place to regulate marriage anyway in my view. After all - marriage is a civil contract between two people - and before their chosen deity if they so desire. Neither is the concern of the government one bit.

However, - I don't disagree with leveling the playing field. However - a gay or lesbian couple can get married - if they want to go where its legal. Just as a unmarried straight couple can choose NOT to marry. Each is a choice by the individuals involved. If either one chooses not to take the steps necessary to be married in the eyes of the government - they have legal options to insure their wishes are honored. That isn't discriminatory - it applies equally to unmarried couples regardless of sexuality.

I don't have an issue with doing this - I have an issue with doing it only for specificed subgroups based on sexuality choice - while leaving others out in the cold.

This is just like the issues of providing health insurance for gay and lesbian couples. I don't have a problem with it - but if your going to do it - then you need to also offer the same to unmarried heterosexual couples. Otherwise your offering one group - based on their sexuality - on thing - while not offering another group in the same circumstance the same thing. That is the definition of discrimination based on sexual preference.

The fact is there are legitimate reasons some heterosexual couples do not marry - yet they are penalized still... when others are not.

04-16-10, 12:24 PM	#2
Sailor Steve Eternal Patrol Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: High in the mountains of Utah Posts: 50,369 Downloads: 745 Uploads: 249	Agreed. __________________ “Never do anything you can't take back.” —Rocky Russo

04-16-10, 12:34 PM	#3
CaptainHaplo Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4,404 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 0	I disagree - if you want to give someone the authority for such decisions - get a power of attorney. As for the visitation - I don't have an issue. But this should apply to any unmarried couple as far as both authority - get the legal documents in order - and visitation. Like so much else - this is just something that discriminates againsts straight couples who do not marry - just like the health care bill discriminated by including a tax on white women, and the FDA discriminated in banning all but one brand of "flavored" cigarrettes (Guess which one they kept - give you some hints - its the most popular brand of its type among a certain ethnic group, starts with a K, ends with L - and has OO in the middle...) Cater to the special little groups to make em all happy again. Doesn't matter that when it comes to health care decisions there was a mechanism in place. Doesn't matter that any member of a couple - regardless of sexuality - should be allowed to see their "other half". As long as the "special" people get their goodies - who cares if everyone else is left in the cold. __________________ Good Hunting! Captain Haplo

04-16-10, 12:46 PM	#5
GoldenRivet Subsim Aviator Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 8,726 Downloads: 146 Uploads: 0	agreed, i read that article this morning. __________________

04-16-10, 12:55 PM	#6
CaptainHaplo Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4,404 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 0	If we really wanted to get into it - its not the government's place to regulate marriage anyway in my view. After all - marriage is a civil contract between two people - and before their chosen deity if they so desire. Neither is the concern of the government one bit. However, - I don't disagree with leveling the playing field. However - a gay or lesbian couple can get married - if they want to go where its legal. Just as a unmarried straight couple can choose NOT to marry. Each is a choice by the individuals involved. If either one chooses not to take the steps necessary to be married in the eyes of the government - they have legal options to insure their wishes are honored. That isn't discriminatory - it applies equally to unmarried couples regardless of sexuality. I don't have an issue with doing this - I have an issue with doing it only for specificed subgroups based on sexuality choice - while leaving others out in the cold. This is just like the issues of providing health insurance for gay and lesbian couples. I don't have a problem with it - but if your going to do it - then you need to also offer the same to unmarried heterosexual couples. Otherwise your offering one group - based on their sexuality - on thing - while not offering another group in the same circumstance the same thing. That is the definition of discrimination based on sexual preference. The fact is there are legitimate reasons some heterosexual couples do not marry - yet they are penalized still... when others are not. __________________ Good Hunting! Captain Haplo

04-16-10, 12:42 PM	#4
frau kaleun Rear Admiral Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Skyri--oh who are we kidding, I'm probably at Lowe's. Again. Posts: 12,706 Downloads: 168 Uploads: 0	Straight couples have the option of marrying and can choose not to. If they choose to marry, it will be recognized everywhere as will all the rights and privileges that come with it. Gay and lesbian couples do not have the same option unless they live in one of the few states that will recognize such a union, and even then most of the remaining states will not. So it's not a fair playing field to begin with. It's only discrimination against gay and lesbian couples in this matter that makes a special mandate necessary at all. Let any couple who wants to enter into a legal union do so, and give them all the rights and privileges that come with it. Require the power-of-attorney stuff from any couple that chooses not to marry even though any couple can. Then there's no discrimination either way and no need for mandate to make up for it.