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02-04-24, 02:09 PM | #1 |
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Can I just vent about healthcare and dying?
My wife's sister is dying of cancer. She has already lived two years longer than the doctors expected.
One of the more recent symptoms is that the cancer paralyzed her stomach so she is unable to eat or drink. She is being kept alive on inter-venous feeding and hydration. If you are familiar with such treatment, it is torturous on the patient. She decided that it was time to transition to hospice. The hospice company told her that they can't continue the inter-venous feeding and hydration as that is considered a medical procedure. So she is faced with two choices Go into hospice and slowly die of dehydration Stay in the hospital and be kept alive in horrible misery. There is a third choice as the state she is in has physician assisted suicide but she has religious beliefs that must be respected. We would not allow a dog to suffer like this, but these are the choices my wife's sister is facing. From what I heard, she elected to die of dehydration.... in the 21st century. Whiskey Tango Foxtrot No one deserves to go out like that. I just hope that Hospice can knock her out so she does not suffer.
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02-04-24, 02:18 PM | #2 |
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So terribly sad and something that shouldn't be tolerated in this day and age.
Sending my best wishes to her as well as her family.
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02-04-24, 06:34 PM | #3 |
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^ ditto, not much I can say to help, just hope and pray that somehow she will go peacefully.
I always pray that I go out with a massive heart attack - quick!
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02-04-24, 07:01 PM | #4 |
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Hospice gave my mother a prescription for morphine in her last couple of days. I'd imagine they will keep her well sedated.
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02-05-24, 11:34 AM | #5 | |
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I just lost a friend of the family in Hospice a few weeks ago. It's hard to see someone you care about in that condition that had once been so vibrant. She did a lot in her Community. It's never easy to lose someone and never will be. Condolences To Platapus and August and everyone else going through difficult circumstances like these or have experienced it. |
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02-05-24, 02:26 PM | #6 |
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Condolences platapus
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02-08-24, 07:22 AM | #7 | |
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The problem also lies in the commercialisation of health care. When the mother of my father died, it was clear where her road ahead would lead her when she was in hospital, and everybody knew she would never leave it again. Still, they ran an awful lot of procedures and diagnostics on her, many of them making her suffer more than was inevitable anyway due to her health status - not because they could get info from these to change her fate for the better, but because it generated income for the hospital. They milked coins out of her until she was dead. Not metaphorically spoken - but literally. My uncle was the one being in place and deciding - and he just did not know enough about all this, trusted them doctors. When you make health care an investment option for shareholders and profits must be created to pay out these shareholders - guess who looses. The money gets taken form somewhere, it does not rain down from heaven. Somebody's gotta pay the bill. When years ago I still held stocks, I carefully had excluded health care providers and insurers.
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02-08-24, 06:51 AM | #8 |
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So sorry to hear that. Really rigid processes don't help anyone. I would opt for option 3 for sure, but as August suggested, getting a strong sedative until the end would seem to be be viable.
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