Subnuts' Whiny Neuroses Thread

Subnuts · 11-09-16, 06:01 PM

I thought I would shift this discussion from the 2016 election thread, where it was starting to dominate the discussion.

I'm a bit of a nervous wreck right now, though I'm trying to be a realistic nervous wreck, and wouldn't mind some pity and sympathy from my forum mates...but not too much.

I'm a Type I diabetic since 1995, and have been receiving "free" insurance since 2014. I'm currently working a part-time grocery store job with irregular hours. The idea of losing my health insurance scares the crap out of me. I live with my mother (who's retired and on social security), but we get by at the moment. If I lose my insurance, I'd be spending hundreds of dollars a month of insulin, syringes, and test strips, which wouldn't leave any money for either of us. Quite frankly, I'd rather spend my money supporting American-owned businesses, and not lining the pockets of pharmaceutical companies.

I finally passed my GED in October, and I'm looking forward to getting a better job if one comes across. Went up to my local job center, and they told me to come back next week for a seminar. So far, I'm not terribly optimistic about what's out there. Looks like there's nothing but restaurant jobs available in town. Out of the frying pan, and into the fire! I don't have a car, so I can't really look for anything out of town. I want to maybe attend a couple of classes at the local community college, but again, money is an issue.

Sorry if I'm ranting, but I'm terribly anxious and frustrated at the moment. I have no idea what this election is going to bring about, or what effects it will have on me. I'll admit to not being a very "strong" person and being prone to fits of panic at times. I don't want to sound like I'm being totally selfish, because I'm genuinely concerned about how people will be effected in the months and years to come. I just need to get some stuff of my chest, that's all!

Sailor Steve · 11-09-16, 07:01 PM

I'm really sorry to hear it. My medical care is covered by the VA, I live on a small check from the VA as well (in lieu of Social Security), and I can afford an apartment alone thanks only to HUD-funded housing. Your story makes me feel like I have it good. I wish there was something I could do to help.

Platapus · 11-09-16, 07:16 PM

Don't borrow trouble. Wait until any decisions are even made that will adversely affect you before worrying.

Remember that Trump's business is sales. What he said during the campaign may not be anything close to what he does when actually in office. Also, he will be our president, not our king. Domestically, the president has limited powers.

Between now and 20 Jan, Trump will be part of some very serious briefings which will, undoubtedly be eye-opening. I assume that every first time PotUS goes through the same shocking experience. I guess what he will be saying the most is "I had no idea...".

No one can foretell the future so there is no real need to get worried about what might happen. It would be prudent to start considering several "plan B's" just in case. But I would wait until something actually happens. That way you can worry at the problem and not worry about the problem.

Speaking as an old guy who has lived through a lot. The future won't be as bad as you fear nor as good as you wish, but somewhere in between.

The last thing you want to do is adversely affect your health by stress.

Oberon · 11-09-16, 07:16 PM

Honestly mate, it's fine to have this moment of panic, we've had a lot of unexpected right hooks in recent times. I've had similar moments after the last election, after the Brexit referendum and indeed, when getting notice of eviction just a few weeks before Christmas last year.
Take a day or two to get yourself back into the right state of mind, do something you enjoy, turn off the news, treat yourself (if you have the money to do so) and then once the initial shock has passed, then settle down and think about what comes next.
Most of these potential negatives from Trumps election are going to be mid to long term, the initial ripples from this impact will calm over the next few weeks, the DOW Jones is already coming back up, and while things are not going to be the same, it's not quite doomsday just yet.
The only comparisons I can make is our Brexit, and so far in my life not a great deal has changed, the only real knock on effect that has directly affected me is that the restaurant at work is short staffed on full time workers because no-one from Europe wants to come work here since the pound is potatos and no-one really knows what's going on at the moment (especially those in charge).
Ultimately you may need to take one of those restaurant jobs, they're not ideal but it may get you some income to help move yourself forward, perhaps to get a car (if you are able to) so you can widen your job search radius.

Unfortunately we're all heading into a great deal of uncertainty, and I am also very concerned, and a little scared, but I have to try to think that there is hope at the end of this, that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, because to give up, give in to the darkness, I don't like to think of that as an answer. Unfortunately, from what I've heard from across the net, more than a few people have already given in, and I fear that there may be more before the next election comes, especially given the rhetoric involved.

And talk, do talk, there's people out there who want to help, and who will listen, see what your options are through calling or emailing various organisations. There's going to be a lot of legal pushback against attempts to railroad through some of these more unpopular reforms that are planned, the ACLU is going to be very, very busy in the coming years. Keep your eyes open and see if there's ways you can support that fight.

And ultimately, as easy as it is for me on the other side of the Atlantic to say, as glib is it might sound, it still holds true.

Illegitimi non carborundum

Or don't let the bastards grind you down.

Mr Quatro · 11-09-16, 07:16 PM

Faith in something besides ourselves works for 75% of the worlds population.

“Faith never knows where it is being led, but it loves and knows the One who is leading.”

“Doubt is not always a sign that a man is wrong; it may be a sign that he is thinking.”

That's as far as I dare go ... prayer is seeking Gods perfect will.

http://www.relevantmagazine.com

Subnuts · 11-09-16, 08:16 PM

Thank you so much to everyone for getting back to me so quickly. Although I try to be calm and rational about things, I can be a total drama-bomb at times. I think my health insurance is safe for the moment. I'm on Husky D (because I'm poor and don't have kids), which is a state, and not federal, program. I bust my back at work, so I don't feel totally bad about not paying for my meds. Not like I made a choice to become diabetic, anyway.

As for my job, I'll just have to wait and see. A Wal-Mart is probably going to open up across the street from where I work in a couple years, and I'd prefer to be out of there when that happens.

Jimbuna · 11-09-16, 08:41 PM

Can't really add anything to the advice from Platapus and Oberon other than stay strong and maintain that belief you have in yourself.

CaptainHaplo · 11-10-16, 12:23 AM

Obamacare has helped some while crushing others. There is no panacea.

However, remember that repealing Obamacare is only part of the process - it will be "replaced". That doesn't mean you will have exactly what you have now - but it is highly unlikely that you will have nothing.

You can worry about the things you don't know about yet - or you can decide that you will face those bridges when you come to them.

Commander Wallace · 11-10-16, 02:18 AM

I'm very sorry to hear of your health issues. It's certainly understandable to be anxious with your health issues and the economy as it is.

Congratulations on attaining your GED Diploma. You just took a major step into a larger world. You had mentioned funding for college at the local Community College. Talk with the financial aid offices within the college. I would bet you would be eligible for funding through grants.

With being a diabetic, talk to your local OVR office which is Occupational Vocational Rehabilitation. OVR can also help prospective employers hire you with tax incentives, which will make you more marketable with a higher paying position. I think OVR will be able to assist you as well with regards to going to college.

Between OVR and grants, You should be able to attend college as long as you can post satisfactory progress in the form of decent grades, C's and above.

Keep your head up and have faith that things will work out for you.

All the best to you.

Eichhörnchen · 11-10-16, 06:44 AM

That's some good, constructive advice right there from CW

Commander Wallace · 11-10-16, 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eichhörnchen

That's some good, constructive advice right there from CW

Thanks Buddy. I'm always under construction or is that remodeling ? I should be open soon, coming to a theater near you.

Mr Quatro · 11-10-16, 08:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Subnuts

As for my job, I'll just have to wait and see. A Wal-Mart is probably going to open up across the street from where I work in a couple years, and I'd prefer to be out of there when that happens.

Write Wal-Mart a letter and tell them you want to apply for a job ahead of time due to the rumor they may build a Wal-Mart near you. When they send you an application fill it out and save it along with the letter for when they do approve of building a Wal-Mart near you.

Then load the tubes and fire one off to them ... I bet they hire you. Plus start on your resume' ahead of time and include a picture.

Onkel Neal · 11-10-16, 09:34 AM

And when you start working for Wal-mart (or whatever job you get), be super proactive, do an excellent job, go beyond what is asked of you, always show up on time and don't miss work. You'll be a manager within a year.

Rockstar · 11-10-16, 09:41 AM

True dat.

I've never worked in the automotive industry once in my life. But I've now worked for an auto parts national chain a little over 90 days and Im already in line to manage the store when the current manager leaves in three months.

Oberon · 11-10-16, 11:43 AM

If Trumps plan to revitalise industry in the US works then job prospects are good. It's going to hurt getting there, just as Brexit is going to hurt us, but there is a chance of improving internal industry.

The biggest problem is making that industry competative on the global market compared to nations were virtual slave labour means that stuff can be sold dirt cheap and the owners still make a profit. Compared to that, nations who actually respect their workers and have decent labour laws are unable to compete, and that's why we've seen the decline of industry in the west over the past thirty years.

11-09-16, 06:01 PM	#1
Subnuts The Old Man Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Connecticut Posts: 1,658 Downloads: 14 Uploads: 0	Subnuts' Whiny Neuroses Thread I thought I would shift this discussion from the 2016 election thread, where it was starting to dominate the discussion. I'm a bit of a nervous wreck right now, though I'm trying to be a realistic nervous wreck, and wouldn't mind some pity and sympathy from my forum mates...but not too much. I'm a Type I diabetic since 1995, and have been receiving "free" insurance since 2014. I'm currently working a part-time grocery store job with irregular hours. The idea of losing my health insurance scares the crap out of me. I live with my mother (who's retired and on social security), but we get by at the moment. If I lose my insurance, I'd be spending hundreds of dollars a month of insulin, syringes, and test strips, which wouldn't leave any money for either of us. Quite frankly, I'd rather spend my money supporting American-owned businesses, and not lining the pockets of pharmaceutical companies. I finally passed my GED in October, and I'm looking forward to getting a better job if one comes across. Went up to my local job center, and they told me to come back next week for a seminar. So far, I'm not terribly optimistic about what's out there. Looks like there's nothing but restaurant jobs available in town. Out of the frying pan, and into the fire! I don't have a car, so I can't really look for anything out of town. I want to maybe attend a couple of classes at the local community college, but again, money is an issue. Sorry if I'm ranting, but I'm terribly anxious and frustrated at the moment. I have no idea what this election is going to bring about, or what effects it will have on me. I'll admit to not being a very "strong" person and being prone to fits of panic at times. I don't want to sound like I'm being totally selfish, because I'm genuinely concerned about how people will be effected in the months and years to come. I just need to get some stuff of my chest, that's all! __________________ My Amazon.com reviews

11-09-16, 07:01 PM	#2
Sailor Steve Eternal Patrol Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: High in the mountains of Utah Posts: 50,369 Downloads: 745 Uploads: 249	I'm really sorry to hear it. My medical care is covered by the VA, I live on a small check from the VA as well (in lieu of Social Security), and I can afford an apartment alone thanks only to HUD-funded housing. Your story makes me feel like I have it good. I wish there was something I could do to help. __________________ “Never do anything you can't take back.” —Rocky Russo

11-09-16, 07:16 PM	#3
Platapus Fleet Admiral Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 19,365 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 0	Don't borrow trouble. Wait until any decisions are even made that will adversely affect you before worrying. Remember that Trump's business is sales. What he said during the campaign may not be anything close to what he does when actually in office. Also, he will be our president, not our king. Domestically, the president has limited powers. Between now and 20 Jan, Trump will be part of some very serious briefings which will, undoubtedly be eye-opening. I assume that every first time PotUS goes through the same shocking experience. I guess what he will be saying the most is "I had no idea...". No one can foretell the future so there is no real need to get worried about what might happen. It would be prudent to start considering several "plan B's" just in case. But I would wait until something actually happens. That way you can worry at the problem and not worry about the problem. Speaking as an old guy who has lived through a lot. The future won't be as bad as you fear nor as good as you wish, but somewhere in between. The last thing you want to do is adversely affect your health by stress. __________________ abusus non tollit usum - A right should NOT be withheld from people on the basis that some tend to abuse that right.

11-09-16, 07:16 PM	#5
Mr Quatro Navy Seal Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 6,772 Downloads: 0 Uploads: 0	Faith in something besides ourselves works for 75% of the worlds population. “Faith never knows where it is being led, but it loves and knows the One who is leading.” “Doubt is not always a sign that a man is wrong; it may be a sign that he is thinking.” That's as far as I dare go ... prayer is seeking Gods perfect will. http://www.relevantmagazine.com __________________ pla•teau noun a relatively stable level, period, or condition a level of attainment or achievement Lord help me get to the next plateau ..

11-09-16, 08:16 PM	#6
Subnuts The Old Man Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Connecticut Posts: 1,658 Downloads: 14 Uploads: 0	Thank you so much to everyone for getting back to me so quickly. Although I try to be calm and rational about things, I can be a total drama-bomb at times. I think my health insurance is safe for the moment. I'm on Husky D (because I'm poor and don't have kids), which is a state, and not federal, program. I bust my back at work, so I don't feel totally bad about not paying for my meds. Not like I made a choice to become diabetic, anyway. As for my job, I'll just have to wait and see. A Wal-Mart is probably going to open up across the street from where I work in a couple years, and I'd prefer to be out of there when that happens. __________________ My Amazon.com reviews

11-09-16, 07:16 PM	#4
Oberon Lucky Jack Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 25,976 Downloads: 61 Uploads: 20	Honestly mate, it's fine to have this moment of panic, we've had a lot of unexpected right hooks in recent times. I've had similar moments after the last election, after the Brexit referendum and indeed, when getting notice of eviction just a few weeks before Christmas last year. Take a day or two to get yourself back into the right state of mind, do something you enjoy, turn off the news, treat yourself (if you have the money to do so) and then once the initial shock has passed, then settle down and think about what comes next. Most of these potential negatives from Trumps election are going to be mid to long term, the initial ripples from this impact will calm over the next few weeks, the DOW Jones is already coming back up, and while things are not going to be the same, it's not quite doomsday just yet. The only comparisons I can make is our Brexit, and so far in my life not a great deal has changed, the only real knock on effect that has directly affected me is that the restaurant at work is short staffed on full time workers because no-one from Europe wants to come work here since the pound is potatos and no-one really knows what's going on at the moment (especially those in charge). Ultimately you may need to take one of those restaurant jobs, they're not ideal but it may get you some income to help move yourself forward, perhaps to get a car (if you are able to) so you can widen your job search radius. Unfortunately we're all heading into a great deal of uncertainty, and I am also very concerned, and a little scared, but I have to try to think that there is hope at the end of this, that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, because to give up, give in to the darkness, I don't like to think of that as an answer. Unfortunately, from what I've heard from across the net, more than a few people have already given in, and I fear that there may be more before the next election comes, especially given the rhetoric involved. And talk, do talk, there's people out there who want to help, and who will listen, see what your options are through calling or emailing various organisations. There's going to be a lot of legal pushback against attempts to railroad through some of these more unpopular reforms that are planned, the ACLU is going to be very, very busy in the coming years. Keep your eyes open and see if there's ways you can support that fight. And ultimately, as easy as it is for me on the other side of the Atlantic to say, as glib is it might sound, it still holds true. *Illegitimi non carborundum* Or *don't let the bastards grind you down.*

11-09-16, 08:41 PM	#7
Jimbuna Chief of the Boat Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 250 metres below the surface Posts: 190,539 Downloads: 63 Uploads: 13	Can't really add anything to the advice from Platapus and Oberon other than stay strong and maintain that belief you have in yourself. __________________ Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something. Oh my God, not again!!

11-10-16, 12:23 AM	#8
CaptainHaplo Silent Hunter Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 4,404 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 0	Obamacare has helped some while crushing others. There is no panacea. However, remember that repealing Obamacare is only part of the process - it will be "replaced". That doesn't mean you will have exactly what you have now - but it is highly unlikely that you will have nothing. You can worry about the things you don't know about yet - or you can decide that you will face those bridges when you come to them. __________________ Good Hunting! Captain Haplo

11-10-16, 02:18 AM	#9
Commander Wallace Navy Seal Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Under the sea in an Octupus garden in the shade Posts: 5,295 Downloads: 366 Uploads: 0	I'm very sorry to hear of your health issues. It's certainly understandable to be anxious with your health issues and the economy as it is. Congratulations on attaining your GED Diploma. You just took a major step into a larger world. You had mentioned funding for college at the local Community College. Talk with the financial aid offices within the college. I would bet you would be eligible for funding through grants. With being a diabetic, talk to your local OVR office which is Occupational Vocational Rehabilitation. OVR can also help prospective employers hire you with tax incentives, which will make you more marketable with a higher paying position. I think OVR will be able to assist you as well with regards to going to college. Between OVR and grants, You should be able to attend college as long as you can post satisfactory progress in the form of decent grades, C's and above. Keep your head up and have faith that things will work out for you. All the best to you. Last edited by Commander Wallace; 11-10-16 at 02:32 AM.

11-10-16, 06:44 AM	#10
Eichhörnchen Starte das Auto Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: The Fens Posts: 17,389 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	That's some good, constructive advice right there from CW __________________

11-10-16, 09:34 AM	#13
Onkel Neal Born to Run Silent Join Date: Jan 1997 Location: Cougar Trap, Texas Posts: 21,385 Downloads: 541 Uploads: 224	And when you start working for Wal-mart (or whatever job you get), be super proactive, do an excellent job, go beyond what is asked of you, always show up on time and don't miss work. You'll be a manager within a year. __________________ SUBSIM - 26 Years on the Web

11-10-16, 09:41 AM	#14
Rockstar In the Brig Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Zendia Bar & Grill Posts: 12,614 Downloads: 10 Uploads: 0	True dat. I've never worked in the automotive industry once in my life. But I've now worked for an auto parts national chain a little over 90 days and Im already in line to manage the store when the current manager leaves in three months. Last edited by Rockstar; 11-10-16 at 10:45 AM.

11-10-16, 11:43 AM	#15
Oberon Lucky Jack Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 25,976 Downloads: 61 Uploads: 20	If Trumps plan to revitalise industry in the US works then job prospects are good. It's going to hurt getting there, just as Brexit is going to hurt us, but there is a chance of improving internal industry. The biggest problem is making that industry competative on the global market compared to nations were virtual slave labour means that stuff can be sold dirt cheap and the owners still make a profit. Compared to that, nations who actually respect their workers and have decent labour laws are unable to compete, and that's why we've seen the decline of industry in the west over the past thirty years.