I'm 18 and I'm dying. What do I do?

RedMenace · 09-28-10, 08:50 PM

I'm an 18 year old male in my freshman year of college in San Francisco, and I've had to deal with serious health issues for most of my life.

Just today I found out (from doctors) that my health is still ****ed and I'll probably have to go to the hospital for a while...

I know I'm not supposed take my life for granted as it's had so many nice things in it... but... why does this have to happen to me? Especially now of all times, when things were finally going all right for me? I know it's cliche to say it but... I'm too freaking young to deal with this.

If anyone read my previous thread, you'd know I can't find comfort from my family. I'm stuck in a dorm with all my roommates so I can't even cry... I can't find a place to do it.

What do I do? I'm such a happy person normally, but I just can't wrap my head around all this... =|

Legionary74 · 09-28-10, 08:53 PM

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RedMenace · 09-28-10, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Legionary74

Whats wrong with you?

If its not that bad exercise can help..

Kidney failure.

Legionary74 · 09-28-10, 08:55 PM

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RedMenace · 09-28-10, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Legionary74

Transplant?

Oh I know... it's all just such a setback.

Happy Times · 09-28-10, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by RedMenace

Oh I know... it's all just such a setback.

Sorry to hear this. At what stage is your condition?

the_tyrant · 09-28-10, 09:13 PM

good luck man

TLAM Strike · 09-28-10, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by RedMenace

Oh I know... it's all just such a setback.

You have youth going for you. Younger means better odds of your body handling a transplant thus you should be higher on the list.

I don't know what else to say but good luck.

SteamWake · 09-28-10, 09:20 PM

"What do I do ?" Prayer and get the best help you can.

I'll say a prayer for you even if you dont want it.

tater · 09-28-10, 09:39 PM

Unlike some conditions that require transplant, it's not like you're SOL if you don't get one quickly. Dialysis sucks as a lifestyle, but it is done by many, and it will keep you alive until you're at the top of the list.

Best bet is to try and stay as fit as possible (being healthy is a plus for transplant placement—as does your age) and try to keep as good an outlook as possible.

Too bad about your family being jerky since they are a valuable source of spare parts

Best wishes.

CaptainMattJ. · 09-28-10, 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by RedMenace

Kidney failure.

at least its not liver failure. THATS when your screwed. no transplant = death for livers. they cant put you on dialysis for liver function.

no liver =. plain and simple.

Castout · 09-28-10, 09:47 PM

Are you holding a grudge or agitated for a prolong period of time?
What symptoms are you having?

What could have caused your kidneys to go bad?

I'm not at the best of my health either.

Prayer could bring at the very least comfort and solace. I've witnessed miracles that resulted from prayer but not every prayer unfortunately is answered with one or immediately answered. But I strongly believe a prayer is never wasted. I'd suggest you do that.

Meanwhile go easy on yourself, rest a lot, don't get upset mind your mind and your emotion.

TLAM Strike · 09-28-10, 10:05 PM

Also get a second option (and a third and a fourth). Just because one doctor says you are doomed does not make it so, doctors can err.

frau kaleun · 09-28-10, 10:17 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about this, especially given your family situation.

I will certainly keep you in my thoughts... can't give any better advice than to echo what's already been said about exploring your options, and staying as healthy as you can for the time being.

Flaxpants · 09-28-10, 10:40 PM

Sorry to hear about your health problems mate, I feel for you, I really do, and I'm sure that goes for most people. You have to stay positive, you say you have many good things in your life, focus on them and the people around you who care. Do what you need to do to get through this, and above all- keep fighting. All the best of luck from me.

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RedMenace Chief Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 319 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	I'm 18 and I'm dying. What do I do? I'm an 18 year old male in my freshman year of college in San Francisco, and I've had to deal with serious health issues for most of my life. Just today I found out (from doctors) that my health is still ****ed and I'll probably have to go to the hospital for a while... I know I'm not supposed take my life for granted as it's had so many nice things in it... but... why does this have to happen to me? Especially now of all times, when things were finally going all right for me? I know it's cliche to say it but... I'm too freaking young to deal with this. If anyone read my previous thread, you'd know I can't find comfort from my family. I'm stuck in a dorm with all my roommates so I can't even cry... I can't find a place to do it. What do I do? I'm such a happy person normally, but I just can't wrap my head around all this... =\| __________________

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SteamWake Rear Admiral Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 13,224 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	"What do I do ?" Prayer and get the best help you can. I'll say a prayer for you even if you dont want it. __________________ Follow the progress of Mr. Mulligan : http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=147648

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Castout Silent Hunter Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Jakarta Posts: 4,794 Downloads: 89 Uploads: 6	Are you holding a grudge or agitated for a prolong period of time? What symptoms are you having? What could have caused your kidneys to go bad? I'm not at the best of my health either. Prayer could bring at the very least comfort and solace. I've witnessed miracles that resulted from prayer but not every prayer unfortunately is answered with one or immediately answered. But I strongly believe a prayer is never wasted. I'd suggest you do that. Meanwhile go easy on yourself, rest a lot, don't get upset mind your mind and your emotion. __________________ My blog: http://exposingsingapore.wordpress.com/

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the_tyrant Admiral Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 2,272 Downloads: 58 Uploads: 0	good luck man

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tater Navy Seal Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: New Mexico, USA Posts: 9,023 Downloads: 8 Uploads: 2	Unlike some conditions that require transplant, it's not like you're SOL if you don't get one quickly. Dialysis sucks as a lifestyle, but it is done by many, and it will keep you alive until you're at the top of the list. Best bet is to try and stay as fit as possible (being healthy is a plus for transplant placement—as does your age) and try to keep as good an outlook as possible. Too bad about your family being jerky since they are a valuable source of spare parts Best wishes.

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TLAM Strike Navy Seal Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Rochester, New York Posts: 8,633 Downloads: 29 Uploads: 6	Also get a second option (and a third and a fourth). Just because one doctor says you are doomed does not make it so, doctors can err. __________________

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frau kaleun Rear Admiral Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Skyri--oh who are we kidding, I'm probably at Lowe's. Again. Posts: 12,706 Downloads: 168 Uploads: 0	I'm so sorry to hear about this, especially given your family situation. I will certainly keep you in my thoughts... can't give any better advice than to echo what's already been said about exploring your options, and staying as healthy as you can for the time being.

09-28-10, 10:40 PM	#15
Flaxpants Ace of the Deep Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Koh Samui, Thailand Posts: 1,196 Downloads: 168 Uploads: 0	Sorry to hear about your health problems mate, I feel for you, I really do, and I'm sure that goes for most people. You have to stay positive, you say you have many good things in your life, focus on them and the people around you who care. Do what you need to do to get through this, and above all- keep fighting. All the best of luck from me.