NYGM or Grey Wolves? Sell me people.

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Ok so I moved a few months ago. In the process I stopped playing SH3. In fact I stopped visiting SubSim (may god have mercy on my atheist soul) and at the time I was last here I was hearing reports of a new exiting mod called NYGM! Also Grey Wolves wasn't on my radar. So heres the thing gentleman and the few ladies who are brave enough to be on a forum full of male gamers: I want to play SH3 with one of the two above mentioned super-mods. However I'm somewhat conflicted. I'm not sure what I want. Do I want the immersion effect of Grey Wolves or the realism thing of NYGM? Now I'm sure alot of you will say that I should just try them myself. Well I don't really have the time to adequately sample each one. I feel like jumping in and playing some superior SH3. So why don't you guys tell me which you prefer and why and pros and cons and such and all the gay banter in between.

Also if in my months of absentia there has been a thread exactly like this one then direct me please.

Alright gents. Sell me. I'm all ears.