Got mad with parents... what do? =|

RedMenace · 09-25-10, 07:18 PM

I'm 18 and going to college and I'm visiting my mom and step-dad this weekend but I forgot how annoying my parents can be. They're so intolerant and abusive and demeaning to me it really gets me down.

I got really mad after a while and said a lot of pissed off stuff that really didn't even need saying, and now I just feel stupid and guilty for getting so ridiculously angry.

What do I do now? How do I feel better about all this? =|

JokerOfFate · 09-25-10, 07:23 PM

Well, to put it one way "I think you just threw dung at a fan thats pointing at you"

Stand and Deliver, mate, tell them your sorry the great thing about parents is they never stop loving you

GoldenRivet · 09-25-10, 07:36 PM

Or you could hit their ATM machine up for about $400, grab a nice cigar, go to a seedy bar and pick up a sultry brunette for the evening.

that always makes me feel better.

TarJak · 09-25-10, 07:51 PM

Tell 'em your sorry for blowing up and tell 'em you love them. You can then have an honest conversation about what they do to piss you off. That conversation needs to be calm and not angry.

And if that doesn't work, the cigar, booze and brunette will work as a back up plan.

09-25-10, 09:20 PM

If their intolerant and abusive then why are they your family? Why does blood mean you have to love?

Unless you need their cash for college then some fronting might be in order.

I personally consider my second best friend (Best friend is my GF :P) closer family then anybody who shares blood with me, and there is the fact that as a Juggalo I consider anybody else who reps the hatchetman: family.

Castout · 09-25-10, 09:41 PM

Call them to say you're sorry?

RedMenace · 09-25-10, 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rilder

If their intolerant and abusive then why are they your family? Why does blood mean you have to love?

I don't really like them anyway, they're hardly my family... but I just feel lame and stupid after I get angry at people, whatever the reason. I just pride myself on being very calm and complacent, and I get very sad when I lose my temper. =\

Jimbuna · 09-26-10, 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TarJak

Tell 'em your sorry for blowing up and tell 'em you love them. You can then have an honest conversation about what they do to piss you off. That conversation needs to be calm and not angry.

And if that doesn't work, the cigar, booze and brunette will work as a back up plan.

^Yeah that^

August · 09-26-10, 08:29 AM

Hold the phone! A teenager thinking that his parents are intolerant, abusive and demeaning?

My recommendation is to print out this thread, put it away somewhere safe and in 15-20 years after you have kids yourself, pull it out and see if you still feel the same way about your parents.

Legionary74 · 09-27-10, 03:08 PM

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09-25-10, 07:18 PM	#1
RedMenace Chief Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 319 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	Got mad with parents... what do? =\| I'm 18 and going to college and I'm visiting my mom and step-dad this weekend but I forgot how annoying my parents can be. They're so intolerant and abusive and demeaning to me it really gets me down. I got really mad after a while and said a lot of pissed off stuff that really didn't even need saying, and now I just feel stupid and guilty for getting so ridiculously angry. What do I do now? How do I feel better about all this? =\| __________________

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GoldenRivet Subsim Aviator Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 8,726 Downloads: 146 Uploads: 0	Or you could hit their ATM machine up for about $400, grab a nice cigar, go to a seedy bar and pick up a sultry brunette for the evening. that always makes me feel better. __________________

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Castout Silent Hunter Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Jakarta Posts: 4,794 Downloads: 89 Uploads: 6	Call them to say you're sorry? __________________ My blog: http://exposingsingapore.wordpress.com/

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August Wayfaring Stranger Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 23,198 Downloads: 0 Uploads: 0	Hold the phone! A teenager thinking that his parents are intolerant, abusive and demeaning? My recommendation is to print out this thread, put it away somewhere safe and in 15-20 years after you have kids yourself, pull it out and see if you still feel the same way about your parents. __________________ Flanked by life and the funeral pyre. Putting on a show for you to see.

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Legionary74 Ensign Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 220 Downloads: 5 Uploads: 0	---- Last edited by Legionary74; 06-16-15 at 05:45 AM.

09-25-10, 07:23 PM	#2
JokerOfFate Sonar Guy Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 387 Downloads: 7 Uploads: 0	Well, to put it one way "I think you just threw dung at a fan thats pointing at you" Stand and Deliver, mate, tell them your sorry the great thing about parents is they never stop loving you

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TarJak Fleet Admiral Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 17,052 Downloads: 150 Uploads: 8	Tell 'em your sorry for blowing up and tell 'em you love them. You can then have an honest conversation about what they do to piss you off. That conversation needs to be calm and not angry. And if that doesn't work, the cigar, booze and brunette will work as a back up plan.

09-25-10, 09:20 PM	#5
Rilder Stowaway Posts: n/a Downloads: Uploads:	If their intolerant and abusive then why are they your family? Why does blood mean you have to love? Unless you need their cash for college then some fronting might be in order. I personally consider my second best friend (Best friend is my GF :P) closer family then anybody who shares blood with me, and there is the fact that as a Juggalo I consider anybody else who reps the hatchetman: family.

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