Confused: Which Mod to use and which to merge with another?

[germannoob]

Hi,

I've been using SH3 for month and merged the rfb with the ff and some other mods. I bought SH4 with the addon. No I'm confused about how the (great) community is going on to mod the program. My Problem is, that most add-ons (TM for example) don't write within the readme why file xyz is included, and what is changed. So it's very difficult to know, which mod is the best for me.

Are there any tips which mods to install and use? Which works best with each other. I'm playing at the most hardest level (but with ext. view. have tweaked the cfg a bit to stay at 100% realism). I wanna have a great KI and realistically damage model. And I'm going to play both, the american and the german, boats.

I'm very happy for every tip; thanks

greetz out of germany, Stefan


PS: please forgive the bad english...