Slugish game need setup help (FIXED)

Hi
I bought the game a few weeks back but have just had time to look into it..
when i start up the game is slow and slughis.. mouse moves slow after loading..

i've been looking around here and tried to use the vertical sync fix but no go.. and turn off dev's .. i tried to optimize my gfx cards and it went from bad to awful...
currently they are blinking blury on and off..

system.
Vista Ultimate
Dell XPS 700
Intel core 2 6800 extreme stepped to 3400 something.
2x Nvidia 7900GTX 512MB SLI
dell hybrid mobo with nvidia 590 sli chips on.
2GB ram
2 250GB striped disks..
Creative X-Fi extreme music.. latest drivers.

using latest forceware for gfx and mainboard.

3d settings currently set to
AF: application controlled
AA: application controlled
AA transparency: multisampling
conformant texture clamp: use hardware
force mipmaps: off
multidisplay : single siplay performance mode
SLI performance mode: Force splitframe rendering (when i do every second it just blinks blury.)
texture filtering:
anisotropic mip filter optimization: off
anisotropic sample optimization : off
Negative LOD bias: allow
quality: high performance
trilinear optimization: off
Thread optimization: on
Triple buffering: on
Vertical sync: forced on.

i bought the system new last fall... it should be able to run it pretty smooth with high resolution... asume 4 frame pr sec is too low..

atm the game is just unplayable .. please help something i should change.. set up in game??.. yes i have installed 1.3 patch not that it helps ..

i run other games on this system like Lineage2, Company of heroes, medieval war 2 with out any problems...