Noob requires help with Mods please

[Rasher]

Lo Everyone

My names Rasher and I'm new to this particular Sub game. Used to play SS2 and AOD. This game seems much more detailed though I have installeed my DVD 1.4 version along with GWX 1.03 and SH3 Commander 2.7. I'm having difficulty in figuring out which mods to install as there are so many on offer and also it never says if they are already included in GWX and SH3 Commander. Can someone come up with a good selection of mods for me. I like realism so shall be turning off any aids. Also what do you guys prefer between GWX and NYGM?

Cheers


{Got rid of the black text so i could read it . NeonSamurai}