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Originally Posted by Shady Bill
 Sort of like an intervention? Hmmm might be good idea...
Worse of all, my wife promotes this behavior. She *loves* that the kids want to stay with their parents, and all the family events and such.
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It is of course very important that your kids doesn't feel they aren't welcome after they leave your home to live by their own.
It's important they know they are always welcome, but it is time for them to stand on their own legs.
I would say that you have a person to person talk with your wife-Where you explain for her what your standpoint is and you are planning on "Kicking" them out.
I could be wrong in my ideas-I'm a loner have never been married or does not have kids.
So it's easy for me sitting here and give advice.
I hope you will find another man with same problem and how he/they solved it.
Markus