take a look here for
Mods list advice for lost beginners made by Fifi
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=203711
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=201004
there u can finde the basic mod list for beginer till fifi's mod list....
or u can take a look on my mod list wich one it's based on Magui interface
or the largest and realistic mod list the Sober one
http://www.subsim.com/radioroom/showthread.php?t=192374