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Originally Posted by danasan
RedMenace,
there is much truth in what Flaxpants said.
The past is finished. All that counts is the here and now and future to work on. Find yourself in real life a friend or partner you can trust on.
Do not let the past and your bad experiences rule your life for another 19 years; not even for another day.
I am pretty sure that you are on your best way right now.
danasan
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People who haven't been in traumatic past life can't understand that the victim carries those traumatic experience into their life.
Be it in emotional, psychological scars or even physical ailments.
A victim needs foreclosure and forgiveness brings that. Provided that he or she has completely been freed from her traumatic experience or conditions.
People are not robots nor they have super strength to deal with their problems without difficulty nor can they just casually cut loose ties with their traumatic past.
often if mishandled their traumatic past would turn them to be the kind of people that they hate unwillingly or they destroy their own life out of their own victimization.