Seriously, I think we all can agree on one thing:
the only innocent victims in this conflict are the children (and animals), no matter which side of the border they live.
The adults are either actively part of it as in fighting or morally part of it by supporting the attacks on the other side. Few people protest against the attacks against the opposite side.
Ask around on both sides, practically nobody will say that they feel sorry for the innocent on the opposite side.
It's very sad.