| frau kaleun |
07-22-11 08:47 AM |
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I still do not understand how a man can be raped
for it to be rape, the victim must not agree to it
but, considering that he has an erect penis, he must have agreed
unless umm, she ahhh used certain "toys" on his behind:88)
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You are confusing "rape" and "sexual assault" with "penetration."
There does not have to be physical penetration in order for unwanted sexual contact, i.e., sexual assault to occur.
He apparently claims that she force-fed him Viagra. Since I'm not familiar with exactly how the drug works I don't know for sure, but the contention seems to be that the Viagra caused him to have erections despite the fact that he had not consented nor was he willing to engage in sexual activity.
At any rate, outward signs of purely physical arousal are sometimes beyond the control of the individual and can occur even if there is no intention to engage in sexual activity and no willingness to do so. This is definitely true of female anatomy, where vaginal lubrication will sometimes occur even during unwanted and forced sexual contact in that area. It is the body's way of preparing and even protecting itself in the event of penetration and is not something that occurs because the individual "wills" it in accordance with consensual sexual activity.
Of course I don't have the male equipment so can't speak from experience on that score, but from what I've been told, involuntary boners are also a known phenomenon.
Also I'd like to point out that guys who talk about wanting some woman to abduct and "rape" them are confusing "getting raped" with "getting laid." THE FACT THAT YOU DESIRE IT TO HAPPEN MEANS IT IS NOT "RAPE" THAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. I cannot stress that too emphatically. You are talking about consensual sexual activity. Yes I know that you are "joking" and I get the joke and while I do consider myself a feminist I certainly don't think I lack a sense of humor.
However the fact that men so easily fall into the habit of equating rape with some kind of fervently wished-for consensual sexual encounter is somewhat disturbing. It's both a result of, and a perpetuation of, so many BS stereotypes about men, women, and sex that I can't even list them all here and unfortunately it's a small part of the overall mindset that plays a part in so many assaults by men on women.
Not trying to call anyone out or anything, just offering up some food for thought for those who don't seem to understand the "minority" POV being put forward by razark et. al. |
