My Apology To The SubSim Community

[SubSerpent]

Ok, where to start? The past few weeks have been rough here at home for me. I lost my job first of all and I have a daughter, she's 5 months old and I don't sleep well at night (she cries a lot). I am a veteran of the US Navy (6 years active duty) and I am about to attempt college for the second time in my life on the MGIB which still isn't enough money to cover ALL the cost of the school I am going to be attending ($30,000) for two years :o . My wife is working but I feel that I let her down by losing my job and I have a major guilt trip on me. I feel ashamed sometimes and depression has begun to set in. I try to stay focused on what I need to be doing but that gets tiring. Anyways, I took a bad day, bad week, bad month, a little far the other night with a few members on here (I've forgotten their names but they know who they are) and I wish to express my deepest apollogies to them. God, I feel like such a sap right now :cry:. I know I can be a bit of a prick but I'm not trying to be. I don't mean to be personal against anyone. I still very much want to be an active member of this forum and I appreciate Gizzmoe and Neal for giving me a second chance. I owe Gizzmoe and Neal a HUGE apology for causing everyone on here so much grief including them. I'M SORRY EVERYONE!

[The Avon Lady]

Serious recommendation: don't was time on WEB forums or computer games.

Hug your family. Remember your baby daughter cries because she has no other way of getting your love and attention and she needs it 24x7 and that's the way it's going to be for a long time. Invest in her - it will pay off big-time in the future. Learn the lyrics to Stevie Wonder's song "Isn't She Lovely" and hum it to yourself when you see her or think of her - or of your wife, for that matter. :yep:

Don't be ashamed or feel guilty for losing your job. Don't keep your feelings hidden from your wife. Tell her everything that's on your mind and ask her to help you get through these times until things turn for the better, which they usually do, at least if you really want them to.

Inertia is your biggest enemy. Kill it now.

Now skeddadle. You don't need to be here. Good luck! :up:

[Camaero]

The Avon Lady has much wisdom...:hmm:

[TteFAboB]

Actually the Avon Lady is Master Yoda's secondary account that he uses to prevent the Sith Lords of the forum from busting him.:know:

[SubSerpent]

Serious recommendation: don't was time on WEB forums or computer games.

Hug your family. Remember your baby daughter cries because she has no other way of getting your love and attention and she needs it 24x7 and that's the way it's going to be for a long time. Invest in her - it will pay off big-time in the future. Learn the lyrics to Stevie Wonder's song "Isn't She Lovely" and hum it to yourself when you see her or think of her - or of your wife, for that matter. :yep:

Don't be ashamed or feel guilty for losing your job. Don't keep your feelings hidden from your wife. Tell her everything that's on your mind and ask her to help you get through these times until things turn for the better, which they usually do, at least if you really want them to.

Inertia is your biggest enemy. Kill it now.

Now skeddadle. You don't need to be here. Good luck! :up:

I need to finish getting my degree and this is something my wife wants me to get also. We already own our own home and both of our vehicles are paid off so bills aren't too bad and she is able to cover them pretty much on her paycheck alone. I also owned some property up in VA that I recently sold for a fairly good amount of money to help us pay off everything debt wise (credit cards, cars, and a few thousand left on this house as well as the medical bills for having a baby) and I still have a fairly good amount of money left over somehow. My wife wants to avoid daycare for Isabella (our daughter) right now cause she is so young and we don't trust anyone else with her and also daycare is very expensive here. So my wife and I both try to work opposite shifts. She works days, I work nights or vise versa. She is happy with her job and for the first time in our lives we have totally switched roles. I used to be the breadwinner and worked hard everyday while she stayed home and took care of the house. Now she works and I have become the Mr. Mom so to speak. It's not easy! Actually, it's probably the toughest job I've ever had. Anyways, we aren't stuggling or anything, but I do want to be working to just to add money to pot so to speak. It's just been a tough transition for me from going from single sailor to married sailor, from sailor to civilian, from Italy to Alabama, from non-father to father, from employed to unemployed, etc.. (And these are the days of SubSerpent's life).

I appreciate your concern and your suggestions. :yep: :)

Is Avon hiring :hmm:

From sailor to make-up salesmen? :hmm:

[Fish]

I know from experience (grandddad) that stress from one of the parents could cause a baby to cry much.

[The Avon Lady]

Is Avon hiring :hmm:
Sure!

Hubby and 7 kids to cook and clean for.

Sorry you ask, now arentcha?! :yep:

[SubSerpent]

Is Avon hiring :hmm:
Sure!

Hubby and 7 kids to cook and clean for.

Sorry you ask, now arentcha?! :yep:

Ouch! :doh:

[sonar732]

SubSerpent,

I understand to a certain point of what you are going thru. My wife just accepted a job 1.5 hours away. They wanted her to start a week from her interview, which is tomorrow, but conceded to September 11th when she told them there was no way. I don't have a job lined up for this move and I've got my resume at 8 different companies. Not only that, but I've got an ex-wife who receives child support and state mandated health insurance coverage. Don't get me wrong, I understand my obligations to my other children, but it's a matter of finding a job.

[SubSerpent]

SubSerpent,

I understand to a certain point of what you are going thru. My wife just accepted a job 1.5 hours away. They wanted her to start a week from her interview, which is tomorrow, but conceded to September 11th when she told them there was no way. I don't have a job lined up for this move and I've got my resume at 8 different companies. Not only that, but I've got an ex-wife who receives child support and state mandated health insurance coverage. Don't get me wrong, I understand my obligations to my other children, but it's a matter of finding a job.


Lets drink to our problems Sonar732 and sing in our drunken Robert Shaw (from Jaws) voices...


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SPANISH LADIES
(Traditional English Capstan Shanty)


Farewell and adieu to you fine Spanish ladies,
Farwell and adieu all you ladies of Spain;
For we've received orders to sail for old England;
And perhaps we shall never more see you again.

Chorus:
We'll rant and we'll roar like true British sailors,
We'll range and we'll roam over all the salt seas,
Until we strike soundings in the Channel of old England,
From Ushant to Scilly 'tis thirty-five leagues.

Then we hove our ship to, with the wind at sou'-west, my boys,
Then we hove our ship to, for to strike soundings clear;
Then we filled the main topsail and bore right away, my boys,
And straight up the Channel of old England did steer.

Chorus

So the first land we made it is called the Deadman,
Next Ram Head off Plymouth, Start, Portland and the Wight;
We sailed hy Beachy, by Fairly and Dungeness,
And then bore away for the South Foreland light.

Chorus

Now the signal it was made for the Grand Fleet to anchor,
All on the Downs that night for to meet;
Then stand by your stoppers, see clear your shank-painters,
Haul all your clew garnets, stick out tacks and sheets.

Chorus

Now let every man drink up his full bottle,
Let every man drink up his full bowl;
For we will be jolly and drown melancholy,
With a health to each jovial and true-hearted soul.

Chorus


*****


SPANISH LADIES
(The Yankee Version - Adapted by Roger Chartier)


Farewell and adieu to you fair Spanish ladies
Farewell and adieu to you ladies of Spain
For we've received orders to sail to New Bedford
And perhaps we shall never more see you again.

Chorus:
We'll rant and we'll roar like true Yankee sailors
We'll rant and we'll rave across the salt sea
Till we strike soundings in the harbor of New Bedford
Nantucket to home is just a few leagues

We hove our ship to with the wind at the sou'west boys
We hove our ship to for to take soundings clear
In fifty five fathoms with a fine sandy bottom
We filled main tops'l up channel did steer

We'll rant and we'll roar like true Yankee sailors
We'll rant and we'll rave across the salt sea
Till we strike soundings in the harbor of New Bedford
Great Point to home is just a few leagues

The first land we made was a place called Nantucket
Martha's Vinyard, Woods Hole then down Buzzards Bay
We sailed then by Marion, Mattapoisett, and Fairhaven
Then bore straight away for New Bedford, hooray

We'll rant and we'll roar like true Yankee sailors
We'll rant and we'll rave across the salt sea
Till we strike soundings in the harbor of New Bedford
The Vinyard to home is just a few leagues

Now the Captain called out for our grand ship to anchor
We clewed up our tops'ls stuck out tacks and sheets
We stood by our stoppers, we brailed in our spankers
And anchored ahead of the noblest of fleets

We'll rant and we'll roar like true Yankee sailors
We'll rant and we'll rave across the salt sea
Till we strike soundings in the harbor of New Bedford
Woods Hole to home is just a few leagues

Let every man here drink up his full bumper,
Let every man here drink up his full bowl
And let us be jolly and drown melancholy
And drink a health to each jovial and true hearted soul

We'll rant and we'll roar like true Yankee sailors
We'll rant and we'll rave across the salt sea
Till we strike soundings in the harbor of New Bedford
West Island to home is just a few leagues.

[Fish]

SubSerpent,

I understand to a certain point of what you are going thru. My wife just accepted a job 1.5 hours away. They wanted her to start a week from her interview, which is tomorrow, but conceded to September 11th when she told them there was no way. I don't have a job lined up for this move and I've got my resume at 8 different companies. Not only that, but I've got an ex-wife who receives child support and state mandated health insurance coverage. Don't get me wrong, I understand my obligations to my other children, but it's a matter of finding a job.

Hail to the US social security! :rock:

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[kiwi_2005]

Dont be stressed out Subserpent that your wife has to work, some wives will run for the hills and never return if their man was out of work.

Dont worry be happy and have a good rest:yep: