Look man, I don't want to make myself rude or impolite here. But I must say u're asking for donation in the wrong place. Ppl gather here to enjoy and share SH3 experience and impression and u're starting to tell your story where nobody asked for this.
I have a sister which is disabled too from her first week of birth due to medics fault. But I'm not asking here for ppl to donate for the brain disease which can't be cured.
So think about this again. Nobody wants to hear a sad stories, cuz lots of ppl has to deal with their own daily problems.
And as for the mod.. can't say I'm impressed at all. It would be ok to look in WW1 timeline. Removal of the swastikas woun;t change the history u know. but it will have negative impact for game realism
Which as u know is not cool.