I agree, it is about principles, responsibilities and honoring the vow you have taken...better or worse. I for one, if done such an act, would look guilty as a kid caught with his hand in a cookie jar. I know you said you are not a religious man but some proverbs ring true, 'Do unto others as you would have done unto you.' I trust my wife implicitly and conduct myself in a manner that she too would trust me implicitly. Trust is the strongest foundation one could ask for in any relationship. If your soon to be is not trustworthy, might want to stand back and think before diving in.
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Its not a game, its a responsibility between partners and more
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You missed the point, "the game" is the hunt and the score, the hiding and stealing time together with another other than your betrothed. That is the game. Both men and women play this game. Is it about love and passion? Nope. It is about getting away with it and the thrill of it all. More often then not, they are predisposed to this activity. Doing this and living this way is like riding the new rollercoaster for the first time, after a few turns around the track, time for a new ride and the new excitement. I know several women like this. My sister-in-law for example. She was so bad with my brother, she rung up over $100,000.00 in credit card bills and a new car to her, lets face it, screw doll. She was taking money out of my brother company to get laid. My brother could not figure out way at the end of every month, the books just show breaking even. Well, he found out! The game was over, screw doll moved away, sister-in-law lives in shame......and alone now. That is the game. She is busy now starting another game but with out the key to the checkbook. She has been playing the game long before my brother showed up and married her. He was warned in the beginning but was to star struck to care.
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Your right not all women are like this. But is still set poor standards.
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Agreed 100%