I salute you for having the sensitivity to put this out and ask opinions instead of running the risk of offending seriously some. Not only that, but it sure seems like you are responding quickly and appropriately to the feedback you are getting.
I also have to salute those who have provided 'constructive criticism' and 'positive feedback' in a non-destructive and non-confrontational manner. A true sign of how mature this group of game-players are.
