I use voice commands & since I’ve been commanding subs much longer than thing else, it’s understood that manual TMA / ESM / RADAR / ActIntercept would be 1st line of defense against automatically detecting my opponent. And in some cases depending on the platform and your style of command, a TMA solution isn’t really required to be effective, even in a 1 v 1 scenario.
Considering the rest of the platforms(air & surface) really anything(I guess MAD / radar / acoustics / CMs) that automatically detects my opponent / allows for evasion from my opponent is a showstopper.
I’d rather pass on a MP server of many with auto capabilities optional, only to wait for a MP server of a few with manual capabilities available only.
I think the bottom line is to enjoy your DW experience as you see fit. 