Yeh, my missus is OS atm as well.
when we started dating she tried to convert me to the valentines way of thinking... id been telling her for years that i didnt take part, my reasons why are for my partner only. So when we started dating she found out the reason - why should someone dictate to you what one day of the year is special and needs to be celebrated - every day with her is a special day, n i show this through small things.
Biggles, PM me the story if you like, but dont feel down about it - lifes a helluva lot cheaper for single guys!